CityGirlLuv
Well-Known Member
I was just talking to a friend on FB and basically from everything that she's telling me, she needs to get away from her boyfriend asap. It's not that she doesn't want to leave, she has no where to go to. She can't legally come up to VA b/c she has two kids that were born and raised in NC and the fact that they went to court one time and basically the court was gonna let her bf have the kids b/c well the home is his and the kids were born in NC and the fact that his family has money. She has cuts and bruises and has called the cops on him about domestic abuse...this is what she told me about what the cops said:
"I have called the cops on him for domestic abuse. Even the cops told me I would be smart not to press charges because if i did i would have to be out of his house at that moment. I have no where to go here in NC so I wouldnt be able to have the babies. Last night I did report my car stolen. He took it to go do shrooms and thats why he is saying i need to apologize to his friends. Because the cops were about to go to his friends house unless he brought the car back. He is saying I embarrassed him and everyone thinks im stupid. Then he was flipping out because his friends could have went to jail for all the stuff that was at their house. So what!
He left these kids here at the house by themselves for like an hour."
She lives in Oxford, NC and if any of you know of anything that I can do to get her out asap, please let me know. I'm phoning friends to see how far away from there they live so she can get back on her feet. He told her she wasn't allowed to get a job, see her friends and family up here in va, etc. It's heartbreaking and I never knew until now when she went off on FB about it.
ETA: Would you know of any shelters within the area. She does have a car so that's a plus on her end.
ETA 2: She just sent me this "Like you dont even know the half of it! Ive been to social services and they wont even help me. J makes too much money for us to get "help" so I can not apply while living in his house. The only way I can apply is if I press charges then I have to wait 30 days + for them to get everything in the system and passed."
"I have called the cops on him for domestic abuse. Even the cops told me I would be smart not to press charges because if i did i would have to be out of his house at that moment. I have no where to go here in NC so I wouldnt be able to have the babies. Last night I did report my car stolen. He took it to go do shrooms and thats why he is saying i need to apologize to his friends. Because the cops were about to go to his friends house unless he brought the car back. He is saying I embarrassed him and everyone thinks im stupid. Then he was flipping out because his friends could have went to jail for all the stuff that was at their house. So what!
He left these kids here at the house by themselves for like an hour."
She lives in Oxford, NC and if any of you know of anything that I can do to get her out asap, please let me know. I'm phoning friends to see how far away from there they live so she can get back on her feet. He told her she wasn't allowed to get a job, see her friends and family up here in va, etc. It's heartbreaking and I never knew until now when she went off on FB about it.
ETA: Would you know of any shelters within the area. She does have a car so that's a plus on her end.
ETA 2: She just sent me this "Like you dont even know the half of it! Ive been to social services and they wont even help me. J makes too much money for us to get "help" so I can not apply while living in his house. The only way I can apply is if I press charges then I have to wait 30 days + for them to get everything in the system and passed."
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