and that my outfit was beautiful. We were at a work party. Upon leaving the party he proceeded to hug me. His wife was not in the room each time. No on else hugged anyone. We are not a huggy lovey group. I am not a huggy lovey person. Please do not get into my personal space.
I was taken aback. I don't even hug her. Much less him. We are not friends. That was the second or third time I met him socially and we only ever said hi and bye. When we parted he said he was looking forward to seeing me at some other function (I do not know what he was talking about because I have not been invited to that event).
He has a very senior position in our company and I don't even say hi to him in the elevators. I am that awkward black woman who pretends to look at my phone or read my notes when I am not sure if we should say hi to each other.
Was he being slightly flirty, or am I imagining things?
Or maybe he knows something about me he should not and it was pity? I feel paranoid.
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