specialbeauty
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My man and I have been together for 9 months in a mostly good relationship. He spends a good amount of time at his best friend's house. His best friend's wife (who he is also friends with) has disliked me since before she met me. I think she has a crush on my BF and doesn't want him to have anyone. I've been over there a few times with him, and have been very nice to her, but she is always *****y and unfriendly.
My issue is that my BF had been spending lots more time there and it bugs me, like on Sat night he went over there to hang out and left me at my house with no plans (and the weather was bad so none of my friends wanted to hang) and he never brings me, since even though everyone else likes me (including her kids and SO) she doesn't. It makes me feel like he's choosing her over me or that he feels like we're temporary because he won't address the problem. I'm not sure what to do but it really hurts me that he doesn't seem to care about my feelings.
My issue is that my BF had been spending lots more time there and it bugs me, like on Sat night he went over there to hang out and left me at my house with no plans (and the weather was bad so none of my friends wanted to hang) and he never brings me, since even though everyone else likes me (including her kids and SO) she doesn't. It makes me feel like he's choosing her over me or that he feels like we're temporary because he won't address the problem. I'm not sure what to do but it really hurts me that he doesn't seem to care about my feelings.