natural_one
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'I have been seeing the same guy for about 3 months now, due to past relationships I decided to hold off on sex so I knew he was 'for real'. I see about twice a week, he do fun stuff together, he is adventourous and spontaneous like me so we have had a good time, we both share the same interests and it's just been a really nice and refreshing relationship.
Last weekend was the first weekend I have stayed over at his, he usually chills at mine but due to our schedules we never really get to sleep over, we usually are together till about 3am then part ways but on saturday I slept over. We did the whole wake up shower thing and I chilled there for most of the day, no make up wearing his clothes. He was very lovey dovey and touchy feely just seemed very into me.
On sunday night, he came over to mine, I cooked, we chilled watched movies, spoke for ages, then he fell asleep. He had been using my laptop whilst I cooked , when I came on to my laptop yesterday and went on facebook his was still logged in, think he must have thought shutting down the laptop it would log it self out. Now this part I know I shouldn't have done this , curiousity killed the damn cat, I decided to click on message cos he had a brand new one flashing I don't know why I clicked on it.
Since saturday he has been messaging his brother back and forth about me, in the message chain he basically was telling his brother how 'shocking' I look without make up, he used the words 'ha rd' 'rough' and 'not a quarter as attractive' specifically. He did mention that I was a sweet girl and definitely someone he see's himself with long term but he just can't shake how unattactive I am without make up on, he said 'it takes a good 4 point off her'. His message was him basically saying he can't get over how different I look without makeup.
I have been wearing makeup since I was 14 and has become a part of me, I never actually thought I looked that different without it, call me delusional but I really didn't. I have acne scars and dark circles so I guess my Mac concealor gets rid of those, my eyes are also natually round but with my cat eye liner and mascara they look more slanted and Asian, I also put false lashes in the corner aswell.
I really don't know how to feel now, firstly I am hurt, this is a HUGE blow to my ego to read I look 'rough' 'ha rd' and unattractive without makeup. Also because I know he finds me unattractive, I don't think I should pursue a relationship with a guy who feels this way. I really don't know what to do now.
Please advise me'
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Last weekend was the first weekend I have stayed over at his, he usually chills at mine but due to our schedules we never really get to sleep over, we usually are together till about 3am then part ways but on saturday I slept over. We did the whole wake up shower thing and I chilled there for most of the day, no make up wearing his clothes. He was very lovey dovey and touchy feely just seemed very into me.
On sunday night, he came over to mine, I cooked, we chilled watched movies, spoke for ages, then he fell asleep. He had been using my laptop whilst I cooked , when I came on to my laptop yesterday and went on facebook his was still logged in, think he must have thought shutting down the laptop it would log it self out. Now this part I know I shouldn't have done this , curiousity killed the damn cat, I decided to click on message cos he had a brand new one flashing I don't know why I clicked on it.
Since saturday he has been messaging his brother back and forth about me, in the message chain he basically was telling his brother how 'shocking' I look without make up, he used the words 'ha rd' 'rough' and 'not a quarter as attractive' specifically. He did mention that I was a sweet girl and definitely someone he see's himself with long term but he just can't shake how unattactive I am without make up on, he said 'it takes a good 4 point off her'. His message was him basically saying he can't get over how different I look without makeup.
I have been wearing makeup since I was 14 and has become a part of me, I never actually thought I looked that different without it, call me delusional but I really didn't. I have acne scars and dark circles so I guess my Mac concealor gets rid of those, my eyes are also natually round but with my cat eye liner and mascara they look more slanted and Asian, I also put false lashes in the corner aswell.
I really don't know how to feel now, firstly I am hurt, this is a HUGE blow to my ego to read I look 'rough' 'ha rd' and unattractive without makeup. Also because I know he finds me unattractive, I don't think I should pursue a relationship with a guy who feels this way. I really don't know what to do now.
Please advise me'
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