werenumber2
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Halle Barry ain't "light-skinned"!!!! ??? He trippin'.
Oh to black men she most certainly is. She's one of their patron saints of biracial beauty.
Halle Barry ain't "light-skinned"!!!! ??? He trippin'.
ya'll always skewing the scale. Halle is light skinned and BM definitely consider her that. Is she ain't then Gabby Union must be charcoal.
I'm shaking my head. Slavery sure did mess us up. I look at other nationalities, and they just seem to be so proud of who they are and where they came from. I don't hear them self-depreciating themselves. They don't bragg when their children are biracial. You will never hear them say, "Ooh my child is mixed with white, or my child is mixed with black". On the other hand you will often here a black person, who has a biracial child proudly say "Ooh my child is mixed with white, or my child is mixed with Asian". We as black people need to be proud of where we came from and who we are. There is not one darn thing wrong with our hair, and we as black people are 1000% beautiful.
Because its difficult to manage especially if you're someone that is low maintenance like myself. Yes I know this messageboard has very good tips but I don't like having to put all this effort into my hair for styling, health, and growth purposes.......
Why do BW hate their hair so much? I can understand being upset when having it braided, but seriously.... Why do BW hate their hair? I mean we love our bodies, faces, and what not... But the hair hatred, I just don't get.
I know too many people with this mentality. On the flipside I also know women who will sleep with black men because they want a dark baby.
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Because its difficult to manage especially if you're someone that is low maintenance like myself. Yes I know this messageboard has very good tips but I don't like having to put all this effort into my hair for styling, health, and growth purposes.
I would say to an extent in some situations my hair dictates my life, namely my schedule. I will NOT go to the gym before I go to work unless I have at least 3 hours to get ready after I'm done working out? Why because I have fine 4b hair that I cannot simply wash, blow dry, flatiron and still have hair on my head. I would have none. But you see other groups of women have multiple chemicals in their hair still well past brastrap.
I personally wouldn't date someone simply because of features they have that I would want my children to have. But I can definitely see why looser hair textures are more favorable. I see young black toddlers/children visiting the salon on a weekly or bi-weekly basis because their mother doesn't want to spend hours trying to do their hair. Yes I know there are mothers of bi-racial black girls that do the same thing but generally speaking you don't see other groups taking their daughters to the salon as frequently as blacks.
I have I have a friend like this.Where do they do that? Shocks the hello outta me! Never met a woman in my life that wanted darker kids.
I have I have a friend like this.
Where do they do that? Shocks the hello outta me! Never met a woman in my life that wanted darker kids.
Where do they do that? Shocks the hello outta me! Never met a woman in my life that wanted darker kids.
Really???? You never noticed the occurrence of extremely light-skinned black people purposely seeking out dark-skinned mates? Or white women who exclusively date black men?
One of my white childhood friends just loves that her daughter is bi-racial (mixed with black). She only dates black men, even though she has friends of all races.
On another discussion forum, I read a post by a black woman who dated white men not only because she was personally attracted to them, but also because she wanted her children to have nice hair.
What do you guys think of this? Do you know people who do such things?
My latino acquaintancethat if she marries a white guy with blue eyes, her children will have blue eyes. She's becoming a doctor....so I thought she understood that genetics isn't that simple.
You know, I hope with this "Natural Hair Movement" and people like Mwedzi proving that our hair is absolutely fabulous, this mentality with die out.
So sad, because our hair is VERY unique. Even animals do not tend to have afro-textured hair/fur.
When I was with my white Ex, I was always afraid of getting pregnant with a little girl with blond (highlighted) hair. I know it was wrong, but I thought that people would think she a (ahem) empty headed pretty girl. I don't like blond hair at all, and have some... problems with blondes. But I reconciled that even if my child ended up with that crappy color, I would just have another "talk" about the society's perceptions about her.
This is me. That's why I had to relax. It was hard letting dead protein dictate my life.Because its difficult to manage especially if you're someone that is low maintenance like myself. Yes I know this messageboard has very good tips but I don't like having to put all this effort into my hair for styling, health, and growth purposes.
I would say to an extent in some situations my hair dictates my life, namely my schedule. I will NOT go to the gym before I go to work unless I have at least 3 hours to get ready after I'm done working out? Why because I have fine 4b hair that I cannot simply wash, blow dry, flatiron and still have hair on my head. I would have none. But you see other groups of women have multiple chemicals in their hair still well past brastrap.
I personally wouldn't date someone simply because of features they have that I would want my children to have. But I can definitely see why looser hair textures are more favorable. I see young black toddlers/children visiting the salon on a weekly or bi-weekly basis because their mother doesn't want to spend hours trying to do their hair. Yes I know there are mothers of bi-racial black girls that do the same thing but generally speaking you don't see other groups taking their daughters to the salon as frequently as blacks.
I've heard the whole thing about Halle and Aaliyah not being light too. And old friend of mine, Bobby S who used to do Flava Videos told me that when he interviewed Aaliyah on the show, he realized that she was way darker than she appeared...*shrugs*
Where do they do that? Shocks the hello outta me! Never met a woman in my life that wanted darker kids.[/QUOTE]
We should arrange to meet then.
Because its difficult to manage especially if you're someone that is low maintenance like myself.
Now this is a lie. My nautural takes me less time and products than my relaxed hair ever did, and its grown a lot longer. I'm as low maintenance as they come. We need to call it what it is. Not wanting to learn a necessary skill.
I think that totally depends on you, your hair and the way you style your hair......
Some people may have all the skills in the world but find using one or the other easier as a preference.....
Definitely not true. Many Asians, hispanics etc are quite glad to mix with whites and have lighter skinned children. We need to remember that no pathology is unique to blacks, as much as some of us like to think that we are specially flawed.I'm shaking my head. Slavery sure did mess us up. I look at other nationalities, and they just seem to be so proud of who they are and where they came from. I don't hear them self-depreciating themselves. They don't bragg when their children are biracial. You will never hear them say, "Ooh my child is mixed with white, or my child is mixed with black".
I have definitely seen this - white people who want brown-skinned, curly-headed babies.Yes, I've heard of this. So sad . But it can also go both ways, as I've even heard that some white women do it too with black men, because they want "cute babies with cute hair and cute skin". What a vain mentality