I think he was just
not the one. Also, it seems like guys on the East coast are kind of caveman/aggressive. You think you're just dating/getting to know each other and the next thing you're an item/exclusive and so on. Weird. OTOH, in Cali a lot people drift in rel'ps for a long time without really calling anything.
Not saying one is better. I guess depends on the guy & if you want to be sewn up w/him rather quickly or not.
So, yah, I guess I was flattered, half-asleep, delusional,.. and maybe too young as well.
Funny side note:
My ex-husband found me on myspace recently and wrote to DH trying to contact me!