Libra Ladies & Aquarius Men

[SvelteVelvet]

This might be too narrowed but I'd really like to see if there are any Libra ladies seeing/dating/have dated/married to Aquarius men.

Is it just me or is the attraction and connection off the chain?? This guy I'm seeing (marriage talk from first date) it's like we are fated. He's the second Aquarius man I've been involved with. The first one was amazing as well but he was 9 years older than me and it just didn't pan out, we never even had sex. We saw each other when we could (LD relationship) and we only kissed but we always had so much to talk about, so much in common and talked everyday on the phone for 9 months until I just didn't want to talk to him anymore because I wasn't ready for what he was ready for. That was 6 years ago.

Now seeing this guy, our compatibility is up there with the previous Aquarius, but we've got age in common and are both at a point where we want the same things in life and out of each other. It's crazy to both of us how we've seemed to have fallen in love within 2 weeks, both of us are also aware of how soon it is as well, but there's no denying our connection.

So I started reading up on Libra-Aquarius matches and there were alot of things that made sense, says it's like a soul-mate connection due to the placement of our signs and all that. But just curious from any Libras into astrology as I am who pays attention to the signs of the people in their life to relay your real life interaction with Aquarius men if you've had one.

 

[caribeandiva]

hmm interesting. i've never dated an aquarius man so i can't help you out.

 

[locabouthair]

I notice there are a lot of libras on the board.

im a libra too. i never dated an aquarius, but I met oen that chased me for 9 months but he was a dog and pretty much told me that it's mans nature to cheat. so i just left him alone.

i dont know much about aquarius men but i do know that libra and aquarius are supposed to be good together because they are both air signs.

 

[Browndilocks]

I don't do the astrology thing much at all, BUT.....

I'm a Libra and I date an Aquarius. The attraction is sick... almost dangerous. Our relationship is rather complex but I think I know what you're talking about.

 

[SvelteVelvet]

I don't do the astrology thing much at all, BUT.....

I'm a Libra and I date an Aquarius. The attraction is sick... almost dangerous. Our relationship is rather complex but I think I know what you're talking about.

Yeah I feel you on the dangerous tip . That's exactly how it is, we can't be near each other without wanting to get a room. I think also being an air sign as well and not being as clingy as most women, I like just enough space and just enough quality time, it keeps him interested. And not to brag but Libra's have it locked in the intellect and sex appeal (brains & beauty) category. I feel like Aquarius is one sign that can actually handle all of that, well this one can.

So was it an instant attraction? Was your relationship slow-going or full speed ahead since day one?

 

[Browndilocks]

Yeah I feel you on the dangerous tip . That's exactly how it is, we can't be near each other without wanting to get a room. I think also being an air sign as well and not being as clingy as most women, I like just enough space and just enough quality time, it keeps him interested. And not to brag but Libra's have it locked in the intellect and sex appeal (brains & beauty) category. I feel like Aquarius is one sign that can actually handle all of that, well this one can.

So was it an instant attraction? Was your relationship slow-going or full speed ahead since day one?

Instant attraction? Maybe for him. We met in college... of all places in physical science class. He would walk up to me, sit next to me, drive up to me...asking me out for the entire semester. I always said no. He never gave up. After the semester was over I finally took him up on a date. After the date was over, I was kicking myself for not going out with him sooner. Our first date is what really set the attraction [to him] off for me because his personality is just awesome.

Our relationship is definitely slow going. After graduating, I moved and we never got anything serious started. Funny thing is, I moved to his home town and he didn't hesitate to introduce me to his parents, family, etc. His family has actually "taken me in" while he wasn't even in the picture. Fast forward 8 years... he moved back home and we now live in the same city. I didn't even see it coming. On one hand I'm ready to really do this and on the other hand I'm petrified. I've been keeping my distance from him.

BOLDED:So true! There have been times where I wanted to just end our relationship altogether. Thankfully, we have never had any major drama but we're both very ambitious people. We sometimes get in each other's way. But then I'd find myself missing his conversation and analysis on something I needed advice on or vice versa.

I'm telling you, its weird. . We both have really busy careers. We both really need space. Last night, I saw him for the first time in 3 weeks. It was crazy. I had to get outta there before I got myself into some serious trouble!

I could tell he was kinda upset that I was leaving but I'm trying to stay focused. I'm a little reluctant to admit it but I really love him and I want to be with him. He has to pursue me though and until he puts things in motion to be with me full throttle, I'm just not going to be available like that. Not even for him.

 

[SvelteVelvet]

@ Browndilocks

You guys sound like us but the time is a lot more condensed. Initially I didn't know if I was attracted to him, he approached me though, and I was kinda on the keep it movin tip, not really trying to stop and talk to him but he said something that just made me stop and I gave him my number and just like you when I spent time with him for the first time it was magnetic and instant and we just clicked and I met the majority of his family including his mom within a 5-day period. One thing I do know about them is they like to be the chaser, and clinger ons or aggressive women who make the first move push them away. I think independence does just the opposite, draws them closer. I find myself being the one saying for instance, it's Tuesday "I'll talk to you Saturday to talk about plans for going to such and and such on Sunday" And his response is "Ok cool.. Can I see you before that though?" or he's calling the next day and all of a sudden he's "In town and wants to stop by" This could all cool off but right now it seems to just get stronger and stronger the more we see each other.

 

[MizAvalon]

My first real boyfriend was an Aquarius. The physical attraction was definitely off the chain but that's all. We had different upbringings, were from different cultures, had different belief systems and could have never worked long term. Not to mention he was a cheater and a liar. We ended up lasting a couple of years.

We were both teenagers though so I'm not sure if this counts.

 

[Cleve_gryl]

ITA with them being liars!! I never dated an Aquarius, but one of my very best friends is and we are here (eye-to-eye). I do think both signs being Air is complimentary...Gemini rounds out the third of the air signs erplexed

 

[SvelteVelvet]

My first real boyfriend was an Aquarius. The physical attraction was definitely off the chain but that's all. We had different upbringings, were from different cultures, had different belief systems and could have never worked long term. Not to mention he was a cheater and a liar. We ended up lasting a couple of years.

We were both teenagers though so I'm not sure if this counts.

Yeah, I do think age and lifestyle/cultures/morals do play a factor. I think that's a major reason why I didn't last with the other Aquarius, the major difference in our ages. Air signs are all known to be a bit hard to pin down but it just takes a sort of a maturity and experience to get us to the point that we are ready, and having a partner that know's how to equally make us feel loved and free.

 

[coconow2007]

This might be too narrowed but I'd really like to see if there are any Libra ladies seeing/dating/have dated/married to Aquarius men.

Is it just me or is the attraction and connection off the chain?? This guy I'm seeing (marriage talk from first date) it's like we are fated. He's the second Aquarius man I've been involved with. The first one was amazing as well but he was 9 years older than me and it just didn't pan out, we never even had sex. We saw each other when we could (LD relationship) and we only kissed but we always had so much to talk about, so much in common and talked everyday on the phone for 9 months until I just didn't want to talk to him anymore because I wasn't ready for what he was ready for. That was 6 years ago.

Now seeing this guy, our compatibility is up there with the previous Aquarius, but we've got age in common and are both at a point where we want the same things in life and out of each other. It's crazy to both of us how we've seemed to have fallen in love within 2 weeks, both of us are also aware of how soon it is as well, but there's no denying our connection.

So I started reading up on Libra-Aquarius matches and there were alot of things that made sense, says it's like a soul-mate connection due to the placement of our signs and all that. But just curious from any Libras into astrology as I am who pays attention to the signs of the people in their life to relay your real life interaction with Aquarius men if you've had one.

I never paid much attention to signs - BTW where did u meet ur new guy? Sometimes I think where I meet a guy has a lot to do with our connection.

 

[SvelteVelvet]

ITA with them being liars!! I never dated an Aquarius, but one of my very best friends is and we are here (eye-to-eye). I do think both signs being Air is complimentary...Gemini rounds out the third of the air signs erplexed

I agree with this also, it's really impossible to get away with lying to me though because I'll come with questions from all angles like an attorney, he kinda learned that about me from our very first conversation. Though I really like him alot and he's been very open and candid about his life so far, I do feel like I gotta keep that ear and eye open, thing is like I said, if someone tells me something that could be a lie I verbally fish for the validity of it and even if the 'right' answers are given, I still investigate the 'truth.'

 

[SvelteVelvet]

I never paid much attention to signs - BTW where did u meet ur new guy? Sometimes I think where I meet a guy has a lot to do with our connection.

Outside of a lounge/club. It was girls night out, the place was kinda wack but the music was good and I had a few drinks and was gettin down on the dance floor. Apparently he came in, saw the crowd and was getting ready to bounce then he spotted me on the dance floor and watched me dance for a few (I was completely oblivious to him even being there, me and my girls pretty much gave up on meeting any cuties in that place so we just started having our own fun in our own little world) He left and came back at closing and waited for me to come out. He approached me as my girls were walking to the car.

 

[RubyWoo]

My sister is a Libra and her best relationship was with an Aquarius man. They had a crazy connection. I honestly thought they were going to get married. They were spontaneous, loved to go out and try new things and had lots of fun. They were a couple almost immediately after they met. The problem that led to the demise of the relationship is that my sister loves attention from men so she wandered (didn't cheat though) and he loved to bring other people into their relationship when problems arose.

I'm a Libra as well and I've never dated an Aquarius. According to astrology, Aquarius partners is one of our matches. I have however, had a female friend that was an Aquarius and we got along sooo well. I think it had to do with our signs as well because the compatibility between an Aquarius and a Libra is supposed to be really good.

 

[SvelteVelvet]

Lol..I'll think about runnin', right now he has a suction that keeps pullin me closer and closer to him.

ETA..this initially was a response but I guess the original post disappeared.

 

[SvelteVelvet]

My sister is a Libra and her best relationship was with an Aquarius man. They had a crazy connection. I honestly thought they were going to get married. They were spontaneous, loved to go out and try new things and had lots of fun. They were a couple almost immediately after they met. The problem that led to the demise of the relationship is that my sister loves attention from men so she wandered (didn't cheat though) and he loved to bring other people into their relationship when problems arose.

I'm a Libra as well and I've never dated an Aquarius. According to astrology, Aquarius partners is one of our matches. I have however, had a female friend that was an Aquarius and we got along sooo well. I think it had to do with our signs as well because the compatibility between an Aquarius and a Libra is supposed to be really good.

@ the bolded, this is us. I love the spontaneity and being social and taking trips, which we are about to already do very soon. Our first date we went to a gathering of a lot of people and they all thought we had been together for a while, that's just how it seemed, and that's how we felt. It's as if we've known each other for the longest the way we talk and interact with each other. He told me it's not like him to move so fast emotionally, mentally and intimately as we have, but everything is just so right it's very very hard not to because of our compatibility and physical attraction to each other.

 

[Owest]

I have never really been into signs and horoscopes so I never really thought about it untill now. But out of the three very serious relationships I've had two of the guys have been Aquarius.

My son's father is an Aquarius, and I can see what you mean about the intense connection and attraction. We had a very crazy, intense relationship with a lot of up & downs. Our relationship was very heated, in every sense of the word..

We were great friends at first, but after a while we just weren't clicking anymore. I still thinks he's a great person...we just weren't meant to be together

I wish I could remember the birthdays of some of the guys I dated. I wonder if they were Aquarius too??

 

[KeraKrazy]

I've never really been into astrology but your thread caught me off guard because I'm a libra and the guy I'm currently seeing is an aquarius. Its still early days yet but I knew from pretty early on that the attraction was definately strong. We live a long way away from each other but we speak on the phone almost every day. I'll guess I'll have to get back to you on how well we do together.

 

[Nella]

Its too bad I'm not a libra but, being a cancer and dating and having dated many aquarius was a good thing for me. I've dated libras (my first love was one and so was my daughters father but, I must admit they were very good lovers). I enjoyed the spontaniety with the aquarius and they have great personality's. I must admit though I fell hard for the aquarius.

Anyhow, I'm happily in love with my aries man now!

 

[sunshinebeautiful]

I'm a Libra and my first love was an Aquarius man. The connection was incredible -- and not to mention the sex! Wooohooo, off the hook! I don't know about the happily ever after part, but I've had several Aquarius men come into my life since then and each time there is this undeniable chemistry going on.

 

[Serenity_Peace]

There seems to be a lot of lovely Libra Ladies on this forum. That's so cool. Anyway, I love Aquarius Men. They are loyal to friends and family. They are also very intellectual. I think both Libras and A's are air signs. We are moved by intellectual stimulation, but I think A's compliment L's and appreciate the fact that we can be idealists. It's a nice balance to their realism.

 

[IntelligenceisBeautiful]

Well...

Dated an Aquarius man, intense connection, intense chemistry the relationship on a whole was intense. I fell in love. However, he is the only man that broke my heart to pieces. He found me "too emotional", I found him aloof and emotionally abusive.

 

[Studio_gal]

Well...

Dated an Aquarius man, intense connection, intense chemistry the relationship on a whole was intense. I fell in love. However, he is the only man that broke my heart to pieces. He found me "too emotional", I found him aloof and emotionally abusive.

OMG - the same thing happened to me - but I didn't want to post because I'm not a Libra (I'm Aries).
The relationship started intense, passionate etc, we were planning the future - then he went COLD and disappeared - broke my heart. Yep definitely emotionally (and verbally) abusive at times
I found out later that he had someone else on the sidelines and moved on to her

 

[SvelteVelvet]

OMG - the same thing happened to me - but I didn't want to post because I'm not a Libra (I'm Aries).
The relationship started intense, passionate etc, we were planning the future - then he went COLD and disappeared - broke my heart. Yep definitely emotionally (and verbally) abusive at times
I found out later that he had someone else on the sidelines and moved on to her

I'm guilty of doing this to people myself , no talking about it, no discussion, just it's over. But I didn't have anyone else on the side. Just as soon as I made up my mind that the relationship wouldn't go anywhere and completely lost interest it would just be over without the other person having any say so. Usually though I had already contemplated in my mind over and over and once the scales tipped to a definate answer that was it. I don't know if that is the same for Aquarius, I think while it's possible for only one person to hold their heart and interest, they really just get bored fast, even with their occasional 'thrill' relations.

I'm naturally a loyal/faithful person, due to more than just my birth chart, but I also to match the depth of intimacy & commitment/loyalty others give me, nothing more and nothing less IF I really like the person. I'm literally go with the flow, and I pay attention to little 'shifts' in all my relationships, so I usually catch them and make the decision before they do. At least that's how it was with the last Aquarius, also a Gemini, and boy does that drive them CRAZY when someone does that to them.

 

[Studio_gal]

So I bored him huh???!! erplexed -

I was just unfortunate enough to meet the 'rotten egg' Aquarius I don't think they are all bad! We were just not meant to be. He loved arguing and could be controlling. In retrospect it wasnt meant to last. It moved too fast.

Anyway young lady - you sound smitten - I hope its all good with your new man.

All the best to you

 

[SvelteVelvet]

So I bored him huh???!! erplexed -

I was just unfortunate enough to meet the 'rotten egg' Aquarius I don't think they are all bad! We were just not meant to be. He loved arguing and could be controlling. In retrospect it wasnt meant to last. It moved too fast.

Anyway young lady - you sound smitten - I hope its all good with your new man.

All the best to you

Naw, I wasn't saying he got tired of ya, like you said, what isn't meant isn't meant and I"m sure you were better off without him . Yeah, I'm a bit smitten, tryin to keep my cool at the same time though.

 

[PeaceFlow]

I posted some more in depth stuff about compatibility patterns here : http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=139989&highlight=tickledpinkies

 

[SvelteVelvet]

I posted some more in depth stuff about compatibility patterns here : http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=139989&highlight=tickledpinkies

Thanks for the info! All of that rings true and me and Aquarius are 5-9, but all of it from friends and other relationships in the other combinations are all so true.

 

[kinikini2]

This is weird. My SO (we're 1 month shy of 6 years) is Aquarius and I am Libra. I honestly do not stake any claim in zodiac stuff... but it's interesting to read so many stories on the intense connections... we're going through " a thing" right now but it's so hard to let go, you know?... sigh.

 

[Empress Yahudah]

Aquarius and Libra are number one matches next to Gemini