Ladies, school me please. Why is it that once you start ignoring a man, he is all...
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gabulldawg
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Re: Ladies, school me please. Why is it that once you start ignoring a man, he is all
So, what do you do if you really like the guy?? I mean, I have a life apart from my boo. I go out with my friends regularly. Aside from that, if I'm not hanging with him I'm pretty much a home body, so 9 times out of 10 I'm at the house, and he pretty much knows that. He's pretty much the same way as well. Is that enough? I also never turn down a date with him. Do I need to "get a life?"
He doesn't seem disinterested in me, but some of y'all have me worried. 
So, what do you do if you really like the guy?? I mean, I have a life apart from my boo. I go out with my friends regularly. Aside from that, if I'm not hanging with him I'm pretty much a home body, so 9 times out of 10 I'm at the house, and he pretty much knows that. He's pretty much the same way as well. Is that enough? I also never turn down a date with him. Do I need to "get a life?"
He doesn't seem disinterested in me, but some of y'all have me worried. 
Crystalicequeen123
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Re: Ladies, school me please. Why is it that once you start ignoring a man, he is all
OMG!
Funny, I thought women were from VENUS! 
Isn't that the truth??? Gosh! Why IS that? It's like a reverse magnet or something! You would THINK that the guy would love the "nice girl" who is always there for him, supportive, available, doesn't play games, etc. right??
Isn't the "nice girl" the type of woman a man eventually settles down with and marries?
Also, don't get me started on when I "ignore" a certain friend of mine. Oh he'll try to make SURE that I see him or will contact me somehow eventually. Tell me, why my guy friend is STILL trying to call me up and do stuff around me (strctly as "friends" of course
) when he has a freakin' girlfriend?!?! I have ignored his butt for a good month, and lo and behold...here he goes again...coming back. 
It's almost like clock-work...
*sigh* They always come back...somehow, some way. It's like they just can't stand to let things die! I'm trying to get OVER you fool!
It's like the MORE I ignore him, the harder he tries! What is UP with that? Is it just one big game to them? But yet when he could have me any day of the week, ohhhh...he was so lukewarm. But now that I'm moving on from him (as apparently HE has since he has a new gf), he all of a sudden wants to make sure that I'm still his "friend", or that I'm not still "mad" at him for what he did last month. 
I'm sorry for the rant y'all, but this just frustrates me to no end! I even have a guy who I met once and saw like 3 times in over 5 years, and he STILL e-mails me and keeps in touch with my mom from time to time! You would THINK he would get the hint that I'm not interested! 
BINGO!
Yep...I think that's it in a whole nutshell. It's funny that the guys I like the least are usually the ones who are the most sprung on me. The guys that I was EXTRA nice and available with however were always either lukewarm about me, or just weren't that interested.
OMG!
Funny, I thought women were from VENUS! Isn't that the truth??? Gosh! Why IS that? It's like a reverse magnet or something! You would THINK that the guy would love the "nice girl" who is always there for him, supportive, available, doesn't play games, etc. right??
Isn't the "nice girl" the type of woman a man eventually settles down with and marries? Also, don't get me started on when I "ignore" a certain friend of mine. Oh he'll try to make SURE that I see him or will contact me somehow eventually. Tell me, why my guy friend is STILL trying to call me up and do stuff around me (strctly as "friends" of course
) when he has a freakin' girlfriend?!?! I have ignored his butt for a good month, and lo and behold...here he goes again...coming back. It's almost like clock-work... *sigh* They always come back...somehow, some way. It's like they just can't stand to let things die! I'm trying to get OVER you fool!
It's like the MORE I ignore him, the harder he tries! What is UP with that? Is it just one big game to them? But yet when he could have me any day of the week, ohhhh...he was so lukewarm. But now that I'm moving on from him (as apparently HE has since he has a new gf), he all of a sudden wants to make sure that I'm still his "friend", or that I'm not still "mad" at him for what he did last month. I'm sorry for the rant y'all, but this just frustrates me to no end!
I even have a guy who I met once and saw like 3 times in over 5 years, and he STILL e-mails me and keeps in touch with my mom from time to time! You would THINK he would get the hint that I'm not interested! BINGO!
Yep...I think that's it in a whole nutshell. It's funny that the guys I like the least are usually the ones who are the most sprung on me. The guys that I was EXTRA nice and available with however were always either lukewarm about me, or just weren't that interested.
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Crystalicequeen123
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Re: Ladies, school me please. Why is it that once you start ignoring a man, he is all
Yep...so true.
Yep...so true.
tiara76
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Re: Ladies, school me please. Why is it that once you start ignoring a man, he is all
men in ego mode are like my cat.....she loves to chase and catch birds and mice...however once they give in, are hurt and can't run anymore she is done with them....she has no intentions to eat them, kill them, or do anything else with them once she gets them...she just likes to chase them and once she can't chase any more she's bored
all men are not in ego mode, most are and women play into their egos to keep them "interested" or are devasted when their ego's don't want them mainly because women are in ego mode too
once out of it, experiences and relationships are quite different
men in ego mode are like my cat.....she loves to chase and catch birds and mice...however once they give in, are hurt and can't run anymore she is done with them....she has no intentions to eat them, kill them, or do anything else with them once she gets them...she just likes to chase them and once she can't chase any more she's bored
all men are not in ego mode, most are and women play into their egos to keep them "interested" or are devasted when their ego's don't want them mainly because women are in ego mode too
once out of it, experiences and relationships are quite different
EccentricRed
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Re: Ladies, school me please. Why is it that once you start ignoring a man, he is all
I read the question out loud. My homeboi just told me..."It's the chase." "Wanting what you don't have."
I read the question out loud. My homeboi just told me..."It's the chase." "Wanting what you don't have."
Jade Feria
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Re: Ladies, school me please. Why is it that once you start ignoring a man, he is all
I'm going to go to the Rules thread and post the story about my ex. SMH. Damn do we live and learn!
You ain't lyin. Funny, because my ex told me that in a nutshell back in the day, and I got what he was saying, but I didn't REALLY UNDERSTAND until I read WMMB and The Rules. Man.OMG!
Isn't that the truth??? Gosh! Why IS that? It's like a reverse magnet or something! You would THINK that the guy would love the "nice girl" who is always there for him, supportive, available, doesn't play games, etc. right??
Also, don't get me started on when I "ignore" a certain friend of mine. Oh he'll try to make SURE that I see him or will contact me somehow eventually. Tell me, why my guy friend is STILL trying to call me up and do stuff around me (strctly as "friends" of course
*sigh* They always come back...somehow, some way. It's like they just can't stand to let things die! I'm trying to get OVER you fool!
I'm sorry for the rant y'all, but this just frustrates me to no end!
BINGO!
Yep...I think that's it in a whole nutshell. It's funny that the guys I like the least are usually the ones who are the most sprung on me. The guys that I was EXTRA nice and available with however were always either lukewarm about me, or just weren't that interested.
I'm going to go to the Rules thread and post the story about my ex. SMH. Damn do we live and learn!
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