Cincysweetie
Well-Known Member
I've noticed that y'all keep it real (too real? lol) on the board when it comes to members' relationship issues. I'm just wondering if y'all are like this with your friends IRL (in real life)? I have a friend who is wasting her time chasing after a dude who is obviously just not into her. She called me today all excited that in her words she "took control of the situation" and initiated scheduling a dinner meeting with the guy (a meeting that he said would happen back in May) and I just couldn't share her enthusiasm. I tried...but I've made these same mistakes in the past and I don't want to see her travel down the same path. She's such a sweet girl that deserves a good man who wants to spend time with her, and this guy just isn't it. I was thinking earlier how if this same situation was presented on the board I would've been told her GIRL K.I.M.!!! I just couldn't get those words out when I was on the phone with her and I almost feel like I did a diservice to her as a friend by not keeping it real with her.
So anyway, back to my original question...do y'all keep it real with your friends IRL the same as on the board?
So anyway, back to my original question...do y'all keep it real with your friends IRL the same as on the board?