I am beyond livid right now. My boyfriend of two years is right now in a hotel in DC with another woman. How did I find out? Yesterday I found a prepaid phone with calls to a woman that he works with. I know of this woman because a couple of months ago I asked him to stop speaking with her because I felt that they were too flirtatious. He agreed. This woman is/was married with two kids and no education.
Anyways he works at a non profit in an area with lots of Kangs and Quains, although he is not one. The office employees went to DC on a work outing today and are staying until tomorrow. They always go on an annual trip. At first he said he was not going to go.
So yesterday after I found the phone, I yelled at him for awhile and I called the girl and told her that I was his girlfriend. He called me yesterday and apologized but kept saying nothing was going on--that it was just flirting. I told him it was over and that I didn't believe him, but he didn't care. He said he hoped that I would change my mind and then he said that he was going to go ahead and go to DC. I asked if the girl was going, he said no and that he would show me the list of people going later. He never showed me the list. Anyways he goes to DC and says he staying at the hotel that everyone else is staying at. I decide to check his living social account because he said he bought something for me and I wanted to see what he was talking about. Yesterday, he purchased a deal for a hotel in DC and two tickets for a party boat. I called and changed his reservation for that hotel to a different date and then I called and told him what I found. He said he just wanted to stay somewhere else and do something during his free time with a friend. I reminded him that even though he purchased the deal yesterday, this morning he told me he would be staying somewhere else. He said some bull**** excuse that I cannot remember because I was seeing red.
Then a little later, I find out that this girl is in DC and she is not on the guest list at the hotel that his coworkers are staying at. So I call and he admits to that. I ask him to just finally be honest with me because it is obvious that he is cheating. But he still insisted that nothing is going on and that I just need to calm down. I yell at him some more and start texting really hurtful things to him.
I am guessing that the girl became angry at him after I called her so he bought those things to appease her and probably told her the same crap he was telling me. He said he bought a couple of things for me and that I shouldn't make plans for next weekend
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All I wanted from him was the truth out of his mouth. It is obvious that I won't get that and that I've wasted two years with a lying, cheating, disgusting man. He couldn't even do that for me.
I will never talk to this man again. I am just trying to keep from doing something crazy since I'm staying with him temporarily and all of his stuff is here.
Please forgive me if this post doesn't make sense. I am seeing red right now and I have never been through anything like this and I have no one to talk to.
Please don't quote.
Anyways he works at a non profit in an area with lots of Kangs and Quains, although he is not one. The office employees went to DC on a work outing today and are staying until tomorrow. They always go on an annual trip. At first he said he was not going to go.
So yesterday after I found the phone, I yelled at him for awhile and I called the girl and told her that I was his girlfriend. He called me yesterday and apologized but kept saying nothing was going on--that it was just flirting. I told him it was over and that I didn't believe him, but he didn't care. He said he hoped that I would change my mind and then he said that he was going to go ahead and go to DC. I asked if the girl was going, he said no and that he would show me the list of people going later. He never showed me the list. Anyways he goes to DC and says he staying at the hotel that everyone else is staying at. I decide to check his living social account because he said he bought something for me and I wanted to see what he was talking about. Yesterday, he purchased a deal for a hotel in DC and two tickets for a party boat. I called and changed his reservation for that hotel to a different date and then I called and told him what I found. He said he just wanted to stay somewhere else and do something during his free time with a friend. I reminded him that even though he purchased the deal yesterday, this morning he told me he would be staying somewhere else. He said some bull**** excuse that I cannot remember because I was seeing red.
Then a little later, I find out that this girl is in DC and she is not on the guest list at the hotel that his coworkers are staying at. So I call and he admits to that. I ask him to just finally be honest with me because it is obvious that he is cheating. But he still insisted that nothing is going on and that I just need to calm down. I yell at him some more and start texting really hurtful things to him.
I am guessing that the girl became angry at him after I called her so he bought those things to appease her and probably told her the same crap he was telling me. He said he bought a couple of things for me and that I shouldn't make plans for next weekend
.All I wanted from him was the truth out of his mouth. It is obvious that I won't get that and that I've wasted two years with a lying, cheating, disgusting man. He couldn't even do that for me.
I will never talk to this man again. I am just trying to keep from doing something crazy since I'm staying with him temporarily and all of his stuff is here.
Please forgive me if this post doesn't make sense. I am seeing red right now and I have never been through anything like this and I have no one to talk to.
Please don't quote.
but personally I'd be gone before he returned from his trip smh no gf's or relatives near by that u can stay w/for a few days???
is there any one you can stay with?? i would be gone before he comes back...show him better than you can tell him
ita with everyone else block his number! Please do not goo back to him he has cheated on you lied to you and played you for a dumb fool. I hope it works out How far is the newest family member or friend?
. WTH!!! Uh well it seems like all the bold doesn't mean smit or make her beneath him or you. He is going outta his way to show her a good time. Arse is arse boo boo. He's a player and he is playing you. 
. Right up the alley of my old destructive ways 
