Ok, please don't quote..
I've been seeing someone since Jan and we're not sleeping with one another. We both have said we are not into casual 'coloring' , though we do other things, well he does, way too much tmi, but oh well.
Anyway, he was commenting on my body and I hate when men do that. So I asked if he is going to view me as a sexual object and as a good time and he sent me this message. Something as simple as this should be easily understood but I can be dense sometimes. I'm not sure if what he's saying is he sees a future or he's just not sure where this is headed.
How would you interpret his text. Again don't quote..
"Actually the thought of even going there with you (all out sex) is not something I take lightly. It has consequences for us ... the sex thing im not ready to engage in. I don't have the luxury for just doing it and that's it. "
For some reason I trust you women to give me good advice. Way better and unbiased than if I asked my friends. Thx
I've been seeing someone since Jan and we're not sleeping with one another. We both have said we are not into casual 'coloring' , though we do other things, well he does, way too much tmi, but oh well.
Anyway, he was commenting on my body and I hate when men do that. So I asked if he is going to view me as a sexual object and as a good time and he sent me this message. Something as simple as this should be easily understood but I can be dense sometimes. I'm not sure if what he's saying is he sees a future or he's just not sure where this is headed.
How would you interpret his text. Again don't quote..
"Actually the thought of even going there with you (all out sex) is not something I take lightly. It has consequences for us ... the sex thing im not ready to engage in. I don't have the luxury for just doing it and that's it. "
For some reason I trust you women to give me good advice. Way better and unbiased than if I asked my friends. Thx
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