Is dating a man with a girlfriend/SO wrong?

Undefeated Queen

Undefeated Queen

New Member
I was talking with some of the ladies I go to school with a few days ago. Many of them said they would NOT date a married man but didn't find anything wrong with dating a man who has a girlfriend/SO. How do you feel about it?
 
Last edited:
Undefeated Queen said:
Hey MzLady :wave:

Apparently they felt it was a major difference between being married with a wife and having a girlfriend. :ohwell:
Click to expand...

Hey girl!

Yeah, I figured as much.

I wouldn't do it, but hey- whatever floats your boat.
 
Undefeated Queen said:
So would YOU date a guy if you knew he had a woman?
Click to expand...

Does he know he has a woman? If so, why not? :lol:

She ain't too much of his woman if he's willing to date you.
 
Blossssom said:
Does he know he has a woman? If so, why not? :lol:

She ain't too much of his woman if he's willing to date you.
Click to expand...

You my girl, Bloss- but I totally disagree with this.

What man isn't gonna have his cake and eat it too if given the chance?

It has nothing to do with how much of his woman she is/isn't.
 
MzLady78 said:
You my girl, Bloss- but I totally disagree with this.

What man isn't gonna have his cake and eat it too if given the chance?

It has nothing to do with how much of his woman she is/isn't.
Click to expand...

I guess it's all up to him... he decides if he has a woman or if he doesn't.

Clearly, if he feels he does, he won't date Undefeated :)

But, if he does... oh well.
 
I couldn't do it either. I think I am worth the time for someone to be totally unattached so that me and him could be able to have each others undivided attention.
 
Blossssom said:
I guess it's all up to him... he decides if he has a woman or if he doesn't.

Clearly, if he feels he does, he won't date Undefeated :)

But, if he does... oh well.
Click to expand...

:lol: No Blosss, I am not dating an attached man. :lol:
 
Blossssom said:
I guess it's all up to him... he decides if he has a woman or if he doesn't.

Clearly, if he feels he does, he won't date Undefeated :)

But, if he does... oh well.
Click to expand...

And this is why I'm joining a convent. :lol:
 
gymfreak336 said:
I couldn't do it either. I think I am worth the time for someone to be totally unattached so that me and him could be able to have each others undivided attention.
Click to expand...

Yep!!!

Sorry, I'm just selfish that way, I guess. :look:
 
MzLady78 said:
Yep!!!

Sorry, I'm just selfish that way, I guess. :look:
Click to expand...

It's not selfish, its self respect. I also won't out of respect of the other female. I don't know her but if her man is trying to step out then I don't think I should help faciliate the deception.
 
gymfreak336 said:
It's not selfish, its self respect. I also won't out of respect of the other female. I don't know her but if her man is trying to step out then I don't think I should help faciliate the deception.
Click to expand...

I know- I was being sarcastic. :lol:

But I agree about not facilitating the deception. Well said!
 
I wouldnt do it. He obviously isn't taking one of us seriously, and I would hate to think that it might be me. But I always end up dating guys with girlfriends anyway because when I meet them they ALWAYS say that they're single:confused::ohwell::perplexed.
 
sowhut said:
I wouldnt do it. He obviously isn't taking one of us seriously, and I would hate to think that it might be me. But I always end up dating guys with girlfriends anyway because when I meet them they ALWAYS say that they're single:confused::ohwell::perplexed.
Click to expand...

All they do is lie! Obviously, the relationship he has with her (head tilting to the left) isn't as serious as she thinks it is.

It's not like he's booty-calling Undefeated. He wants to wine her and dine her as if he's single and hell, he is!

No ring; no license; no blood test; NO NOTHING!

Single! :)
 
ReaLuvsAOxymoron said:
Yes it's wrong. Even when I did it, I knew it was wrong.

It's just one of those things where you treat people how you want to be treated.
Click to expand...

ITA!! I definitely think doing so will come back and bite you in the *** in some fashion.

Not to mention that fact that you already know he can't be trusted. I will never understand why that's such a hard concept for some women to grasp.:ohwell:
 
Blossssom said:
All they do is lie! Obviously, the relationship he has with her (head tilting to the left) isn't as serious as she thinks it is.

It's not like he's booty-calling Undefeated. He wants to wine her and dine her as if he's single and hell, he is!

No ring; no license; no blood test; NO NOTHING!

Single! :)
Click to expand...
You dont think his dishonesty is a character flaw?

Its one thing to put to the side his attachment. But if he is in a relationship with her, she thinks its serious and he does not...what does that say about the way he may possibly treat you?
 
yes it is wrong. Married or not he is not available. now unless he has some kind of "open" arrangement with his s.o. (which i doubt) then it is wrong plain and simple.
 
Blossssom said:
All they do is lie! Obviously, the relationship he has with her (head tilting to the left) isn't as serious as she thinks it is.

It's not like he's booty-calling Undefeated. He wants to wine her and dine her as if he's single and hell, he is!

No ring; no license; no blood test; NO NOTHING!

Single! :)
Click to expand...

Not me Blosss!
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

S
Dating Hurdles...
Replies
15
Views
364
Nyssa28
Nyssa28
**SaSSy**
Experiences Dating A Single Man (never Married) And A Divorced Man
Replies
10
Views
448
DarkJoy
DarkJoy
**SaSSy**
  • Poll
Dating a man with Ol' *** Baggage?
2
Replies
41
Views
985
deltagyrl
deltagyrl
StarScream35
He got mad cause I wouldn't sleep with him!!!!
2 3
Replies
73
Views
2K
Crystalicequeen123
Crystalicequeen123
G
Tired Of Dating
Replies
25
Views
623
ChasingBliss
ChasingBliss
Back
Top