I'm pissed.

im thinking maybe hé lied with the thought that he'll have no chance if he told you his real age... that happens. my hubby tried not to.answer when i asked him in the beginning of our relationship.i forced him to tell me his age and explained i was mature enough for this stuff...hé got scared then of our age différence...
when i told him to me "age aint nothing but à number"...everything went fine after lol.
 
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I don't understand OP. If u already confronted him about lying about his age and his response was "let me explain"... Then why do u want to do something dramatic to let him know "the Jig is up".

The jig has been up since u originally confronted him. So why meet him again?
Sorry, I just don't get why you are doing this.
 
I think he just wanted a chance. I don't think it's deeper than that. He probably thought 40 sounded a lot better to a 20-something than saying that he's 50. Women lie about their age all of the time. Men can be just as vain. I wouldn't assume that he's lying about anything else. But you never know.
 
1QTPie said:
I think he just wanted a chance. I don't think it's deeper than that. He probably thought 40 sounded a lot better to a 20-something than saying that he's 50. Women lie about their age all of the time. Men can be just as vain. I wouldn't assume that he's lying about anything else. But you never know.
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I kinda get this. Yes, he could be lying and have a wife and kids somewhere, but let's say he does "explain" and his explaination is he didn't think he would have had a chance with you if you knew his real age..then goes on to apologize and say he'll never lie to you again..then what happens?
 
This culture of lying about anything and everything has really got to stop. I mean, does ANYONE tell the truth about ANYTHING anymore?
 
I agree, no need for drama, just walk away, silence is golden and believe me, he's done this before and will do so again.
 
I had a guy do this to me a few months ago. I sort of suspected it. He told me he was 38 and I had an inkling he was maybe mid-40s, but I benefit of the doubt that he may just look older than his age. Come to find out, he actually looks good for his age because he is in his early/mid 50s :lol: I found out because he let it slip that he graduated here from some high school I'd never heard of, so I looked it up and it had closed in 1978.

To pay penance, I had him move all my stuff when I moved and still never went out with him again :look:
 
Forgot about this thread. Whoops. Well we went out to dinner. He picked me up in his Benz S600 :look: I didn't do the whole dramatic thing. He just explained to me that the only reason he lied about his age was because he knew I wouldn't give him a chance otherwise.

Sorry I haven't read through all of the responses. Well I've only read through about 5 but I'll read some now. Hopefully I can answer some of the questions that might have been asked. Yes I plan to continue to see him. Like I said I'm not looking for anything serious. I'm young and just want to have fun at the moment. He's really a sweet guy and because he's more of a public figure (which I didn't know until recently) it would be stupid of him to lie about anything else even if he wanted to.
 
I had a man lie to me about his age after my divorce (before I remarried DH). He was also 42 and told me he was 35. I was about 25 at the time (I think). I just couldn't get past that initial lie but I guess that's part of my INFJ. ("There's something rotten in Denmark." Accurately suspicious about others' motives, INFJs are not easily led. These are the people that you can rarely fool any of the time. Though affable and sympathetic to most, INFJs are selective about their friends. Such a friendship is a symbiotic bond that transcends mere words.)

Perhaps because of my personality and the fact that I'm naturally suspicious of people's motives, I had a hard time believing anything he said after that. When I found out he was lying, that was it, I didn't speak to him anymore.

Maybe I'm just too hard on people but if people will lie about something unimportant when they don't have to (life is not in danger, job is not at risk, etc.) then they will absolutely have no problem lying about the weightier things in life.
 
I think you like him and you want him regardless of the fact he lied to you about his age,cut the games out .
 
preciouslove0x said:
Forgot about this thread. Whoops. Well we went out to dinner. He picked me up in his Benz S600 :look: I didn't do the whole dramatic thing. He just explained to me that the only reason he lied about his age was because he knew I wouldn't give him a chance otherwise.

Sorry I haven't read through all of the responses. Well I've only read through about 5 but I'll read some now. Hopefully I can answer some of the questions that might have been asked. Yes I plan to continue to see him. Like I said I'm not looking for anything serious. I'm young and just want to have fun at the moment. He's really a sweet guy and because he's more of a public figure (which I didn't know until recently) it would be stupid of him to lie about anything else even if he wanted to.
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It's clear what's important to you so have fun OP! (Just don't get caught up).
 
preciouslove0x said:
Forgot about this thread. Whoops. Well we went out to dinner. He picked me up in his Benz S600 :look: I didn't do the whole dramatic thing. He just explained to me that the only reason he lied about his age was because he knew I wouldn't give him a chance otherwise.

Sorry I haven't read through all of the responses. Well I've only read through about 5 but I'll read some now. Hopefully I can answer some of the questions that might have been asked. Yes I plan to continue to see him. Like I said I'm not looking for anything serious. I'm young and just want to have fun at the moment. He's really a sweet guy and because he's more of a public figure (which I didn't know until recently) it would be stupid of him to lie about anything else even if he wanted to.
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what is it that u like about this man besides his benz
 
Long ago I met a guy who accused me of lying about my age. He told me I didn't look like I was in my mid-20s and that he felt like he was breaking the law when we went out together. So I had to show him my ID to prove that I wasn't a teenager. Then lo and behold, HE was the one who lied about his age. I did a background search on him and he was 40. He tried to brush it off like it was no big deal. This guy was a major loser any way. Glad he's gone.
 
that old man is gonna run some serious game on that ***...old dudes are slick as hayle...this won't be just "for fun" lol...good luck
 
I had a guy lie about his age. Still don't know how old he is. He also lied about his ex-gf. Turns out there was no ex in front of it. He was stupid though. I had to threaten him with a restraining order last week.
 
Man,this just happened to me. Guy told me he was 35 but looks like mid 40s. really nice skin though. Was talking to my Mom about the guy I met the other day turns out she knows the guy. He told her he was 45 three or 4 years ago when he was trying to holla at her ( yea she still look good). That means he's in his late 40s now very close to 50. Yea, we were suppose to go out and I had to cancel all plans. Now he saying " what, you trying to avoid me?". I'm like, " Now, why would you think I would do that". My Mom wanted both of us to confront him but I told her he's not even worth our time.
I just feel like age really isn't a big issue and if a guy doesn't have the self-esteem to be himself I'm running for the hills. I'd rather be single then be mixed up with fake people. I'm just too real for all those stupid games. Its not cute at all and I don't care what kind of car he drives. I'd rather spoil myself than have drama in my life.
 
This happened to me a few years ago (I was 25). A gorgeous Man I met told me he was 37 which was a little older then I usually go for but he was fine so I figured what the heck- I'll live a little. After some phone conversations and a few dates later I found out that he was actually 47! I was SOOOO turned off that I was dating someone old enough to be my Father that I also planned the low key dramatic "last date" (ie. get super glammed up, enjoy a nice night out on the town and tell him I know his secret at the end of the date) to end things w/ him (face to face)-he didn't know that I knew his true age. I went on the date and ended up having a WONDERFUL time so I nixed all plans to out him. We continued to date for approx 6 mos and I enjoyed every minute of it although I knew it would'nt go anywhere, so it was very carefree. Eventually I met someone else (my current Fiance) and I stopped seeing him. Btw-we did not get intimate at all-he was a perfect gentleman.
 
preciouslove0x said:
Forgot about this thread. Whoops. Well we went out to dinner. He picked me up in his Benz S600 :look: I didn't do the whole dramatic thing. He just explained to me that the only reason he lied about his age was because he knew I wouldn't give him a chance otherwise.

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This is what my ex said when i found out he was Separated and not divorced ,and had a child from ANOTHER woman out of state .
"If i told you i had a child and was seprated you would have never gave me a chance and i wanted you sooo bad baaabyy " :nono: BEWARE
 
I kinda let the lying about your age pass we all do it at some time. Girl wait ill you get 30 you will lie about your age too. lol
 
Yeah this is a sucky situation and don't be too rough on the man he is an idiot and does he have a secret wife family and grandkids don't these guys know you can't hide ish today you will be found out. Handle it baby just to be too rough. Now that that is out of the way AT the bolded. NOW that you will be killing him with kindness ask the brother about his skin and health reggie I mean hey if he got you fooled for a moment he must be something else just saying :look:



preciouslove0x said:
The guy I'm... seeing... lied to me about his age. I found out through a google search his real age. He says he wants to have a chance to "explain". (like wtf??) I told him fine, I'll check my schedule and see where I can fit him in. We're going to say that I'm mid 20s and he tells me he's 40......... but I find out he's significantly older......... :ohwell: He has smooth buttery skin so I didn't have a reason to not believe him. Anywho, I'm trying to make our encounter as dramatic as possible so he really gets the point that I don't take nigguhz fukken around with me (so I'm gonna fukk around with him).

We're going to most likely meet at a bar. I'll be getting there early (and leaving early...) to buy myself a drink and a bunch of food-to-go on his tab :look: Once he gets there I want to kill him with kindness at first and then let him have it (but with a calm disposition). Yea I'm crazy like that (I'll most likely have crazy eyes too :lachen:) Two questions. What drink should I order for him to let him know what's up :look: (cue dramatic effect).

Also has anyone ever been in this situation? I'm beyond furious right now I don't know what to do with myself (fortunately for the most part... until now... I've been putting my anger into something productive :yep:)
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