I'm just gonna do it: Who's married to a white man?
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LocksOfLuV
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thicknlong said:
3 lines and you got that I was angry outta that?!
Ha! If I was angry trust honey you would know it. Believe that! I don't have to subconciously do anything.But all and all you STILL didn't answer the question.
Whatever, I really don't care.LocksOfLuV
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Enchantmt said:Ladies, let's keep it civil.
I do my best under the circumstances!
StrawberryQueen
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May I ask where you're getting these facts? If that's the case, why even date black men if white men are so much better?thicknlong said:
Still didn't get an answer to my 1st question, but I guess that's what happens when folks pull "facts" out of their behinds.
LocksOfLuV said:
Yea you know? But I guess since white men have a lower HIV infection rate, why use condoms? They're clean and perfect right?
Blossssom
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adequate said:I'm in Charlotte. He has lots of single friends and a really ummm beautiful brother in Wisconsin. I haven't met him in person but I've seen pictures and wooo he's a hottie. But, he has a girlfriend.
I'm gonna tell his momma she should have made more of them.
Dammit!
Blossssom
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pinkskates said:The title of this thread is too funny
This is too funny
What does "cool" mean? Heehee! Black community acceptable?
Suit and tie white guys not need apply... not that they would
erplexed
Blossssom
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Serenity_Peace said:They faithfully wear their wedding rings, too! I've noticed that. Most white men wear their rings whether they're cheating or not.
Now that's true. The last white married man I had an affair with (almost 10 years ago), kept his wedding ring on even during the act!
Blossssom
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StrawberryQueen said:May I ask where you're getting these facts? If that's the case, why even date black men if white men are so much better?
Still didn't get an answer to my 1st question, but I guess that's what happens when folks pull "facts" out of their behinds.
Yea you know? But I guess since white men have a lower HIV infection rate, why use condoms? They're clean and perfect right?
LOL!
Whew! It's getting HOT in here!
Heehee!
SweetCaramel1
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Blossssom said:Now that's true. The last white married man I had an affair with (almost 10 years ago), kept his wedding ring on even during the act!
lol
................ so did you wear a condom just kidding 
atlien
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This was a interesting thread. I enjoyed reading some of the comments.
Recently, a white college classmate of mine asked me to go to dinner with him. I was surprised because I am not the black supermodel looking body type (tall thin), but more of the Beyonce, Melissa Ford body type.
I jokingly thought to myself.."I don't think he's ready for this jelly"
I foolishly thought this body type was only appealing to black men, but I am learning that my assumptions are far from true.
The even more surprising thing was the reactions my black male classmates had when they heard him ask me to dinner. They seemed very irritated by it. Like how dear he ask, and even more so how dear I even act accepting.
I just didn't understand their behavior. Black men have been doing this for years, but somehow black men feel we should remain loyal to them.
Can you believe this!
Recently, a white college classmate of mine asked me to go to dinner with him. I was surprised because I am not the black supermodel looking body type (tall thin), but more of the Beyonce, Melissa Ford body type.
I jokingly thought to myself.."I don't think he's ready for this jelly"
I foolishly thought this body type was only appealing to black men, but I am learning that my assumptions are far from true.
The even more surprising thing was the reactions my black male classmates had when they heard him ask me to dinner. They seemed very irritated by it. Like how dear he ask, and even more so how dear I even act accepting.
I just didn't understand their behavior. Black men have been doing this for years, but somehow black men feel we should remain loyal to them.
Can you believe this!
cocoberry10
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pinkskates said:
Thanks you for sharing this, especially the bolded parts. I think a good man is a good man. Some good men are white, some are black, and some are purple
I just went to a wedding of a young, black couple. They met in college, and she just married a good man. Now, he could have been white and he still would have been good. I am open to good men. Period. But I know that just b/c a man is white, doesn't mean he is good. And just b/c a man is black, doesn't mean he is bad. At least that's my opinion.
cocoberry10
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atlien said:
I agree with you. This has happened to me too. Some black guys get mad when a white guy is interested. As much as they won't say it, they really do have some love for us. Warped or not, I think it's there.
shynessqueen
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thicknlong said:
It's facts but facts changes before you know it. I believe you should love your body no matter what race you are dating.
Because not to long ago it was a fact that white men pass HIV it to each other.
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MuseofTroy
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Um what is with some women's facination with dating/marrying a white man. Why can't the end goal but just to find a nice guy in general regardless of race?
shynessqueen
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MuseofTroy said:
Because it's a fact white men are better if you go by what's in this thread.
MuseofTroy
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shynessqueen said:Because it's a fact white men are better if you go by what's in this thread.
That's ridiculous. My whole theory is that if a woman attracts a bunch of deadbeat black men then perhaps she needs to see what is up with herself since she is the common denominator.
shynessqueen
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MuseofTroy said:
ITA but if you don't have facts to back up what you are saying then it's not true.
LocksOfLuV
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shynessqueen said:Because it's a fact white men are better if you go by what's in this thread.
And let's not forget that white men are free from aids, aren't gay, and don't abuse or cheat on their wives.
shynessqueen
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LocksOfLuV said:And let's not forget that white men are free from aids, aren't gay, and don't abuse or cheat on their wives.
We need to put black men on a island somewhere and keep them away from us.
thiccknlong
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Enchantmt said:Ladies, let's keep it civil.
Dont worry Enchantmt, I will. I refuse to argue on the internet. That is plain juvenile. Thanks!
thiccknlong
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StrawberryQueen said:May I ask where you're getting these facts? If that's the case, why even date black men if white men are so much better?
Still didn't get an answer to my 1st question, but I guess that's what happens when folks pull "facts" out of their behinds.
Yea you know? But I guess since white men have a lower HIV infection rate, why use condoms? They're clean and perfect right?
smh...I knew someone was going to take this and run. And run some of you have. lol
No one thinks white men are perfect. That was some of you guys ASSumption.
No one thinks all black men are bad. I know of some VERY good ones. BUT they are VERY, VERY few.
So again, I thinks it's logical that one should expand their dating pool. That's all. And, that's my right without being ganged against. lol.
The problem is, many black women do not like facing the truth about their men. And the ironic thing is, most on here are single or experiencing problems with their hubby or mate.
The basis of my posts about MANY of our black men behavior, I have backed up by STATISTICAL data. There is nothing wrong with a black female being extra careful, because the facts show that the black male has a greater rate of carrying a DEADLY disease. AND in addition, this disease is transmitted mostly via sexual contact. AND many of our children are being raised without their fathers. AND many of our childrens fathers do not support them financially. AND most , i've been quote 70% of black females are not married. AND many of our black households are headed by single females.
NBC conducted a separate program concerning some of these trends in the AFRICAN AMERICAN community. Not america. Not the South. But the black community. Our community. They mentioned, the HIV rates are highest with us. And highest with our men. Why? One reason NBC cited was, a stronger level of infidelity. More of our men in prison, etc, so theirs a lesser number of them available , etc etc etc.
To support those statements and CDC statistics, I see these things every-single-day. Meaning, I witness PROOF of this as PATTERNS....PATTERNS within our society. Well, even worse, I see MORE of that than I see the opposite.
All that points to the basis of my posts.
So, if this is happening in our community, and I NEVER SAID WHITE MEN WERE PERFECT, i aint stupid. But, wouldnt logic tell a common sense person to maybe, TRY SOMETHING ELSE. I am willing to date the other race. Oh, boy, do they have their problems. White men are known to date other ppl in your family, incest, molest their own kids, etc. So they ALLLL have issues, common sense tells us that, BUT who has the LESSER risk in the context of what you are seeking?
MYSELF and FRIENDS are noticing, white guys are quicker to marry.
MYSELF and FRIENDS are noticing, white guys take care their families more (takes financial care of them, takes more time with them, etc)
MYSELF and FRIENDS are noticing, white guys are quicker to WORK and KEEP a job. lol and this means alot to me, lol
MYSELF and FRIENDS are noticing, as a PATTERN, NOT ALL (before someone throws that out there) if white guys dont want you, they can AFFORD to leave, so they will. Rather than giving you HIV and other diseases, plus a terrible rep in the community where eeeveryone is talking about you.
And no, I am not attracting a bunch of negative black guys. I really do the opposite. I do not date that much, because I sit back and observe. And, what I've mentioned about our men, I've seen . So much. With friends, fam, ladies that i know from school and the likes.
I've broken that down as much as possible to those who want to make an issue out of the situation.
Either you see it , or you dont.
Class is over.
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StrawberryQueen
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Exactly!LocksOfLuV said:And let's not forget that white men are free from aids, aren't gay, and don't abuse or cheat on their wives.
DH and I still use condoms since I can't deal with hormonal BCStrawberryQueen said:May I ask where you're getting these facts? If that's the case, why even date black men if white men are so much better?
Still didn't get an answer to my 1st question, but I guess that's what happens when folks pull "facts" out of their behinds.
Yea you know? But I guess since white men have a lower HIV infection rate, why use condoms? They're clean and perfect right?
Men are men ,dogs are dogs.
It's simple as that.
MuseofTroy said:
And that is true for women AND men of all races
.If ALL your relationships were with abusive *******s that didn't respect you you need to take a closer look at yourself.
I see it in my family and in my circle of friends,some women are only attracted to a certain type of men.
Heck I was there myself till I told myself I'm better then that.
Sure it's hard to pass up some good loving ,cuz god dang why did god bless the most rotten of men with ginormous wieners and superior sexual skills?
But at the end all night-long sweating is not worth the trouble you go through with those men.
newflowers
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thicknlong said:
At first, I thought this was a serious thread
- my mistake. I am married to the world's most wonderful, most considerate, most loving, strongest, handsomest, sexiest man ever. I also have the world's best dog too.:0
The fact that my honey is white is completely irrelevant to the fact that he is a wonderful man (my dog is black/red/tan shiba). That said, before Dh, I rarely dated black men because doing so involved too much drama - not my scene.
In regards to the bolded part, I've read so many women talk about being single and having dating issues... maybe expanding the pool of acceptable eligible men from which to choose would be a good idea; at the very least, it would open possibilities for a future relationship. Less focus on skincolor and more on character and what one really must have in a relationship (no settling ladies) would certainly not hurt the potential to have a long-term relationship.
Even dating and marrying, the focus was not the color of his skin, my focus was who he was as a man, if we shared important values, our intellectual connection (and the sexual one too). My point here is who he is as a man is significantly more important than the fact his nose turns pink and freckles.
XXXtacy
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This thread is crazy. I thought it was cute at first but this is a mess.
From the poll most ladies are married to black men. What is all this foolishness about black men with AIDS, abusive, silliness?
Men are men. Crazy is Crazy. I don't mix crazy with my men.erplexed
I would hope those interested in marriage would look for a man to treat them lovingly and want him to be a man of his word with great character and...........you fill in the rest. If people are hung up on the color then they are missing the point.
Marriage is hard enough as it is. Searching for a color or money or whatever, only makes it harder.
From the poll most ladies are married to black men. What is all this foolishness about black men with AIDS, abusive, silliness?
Men are men. Crazy is Crazy. I don't mix crazy with my men.
erplexedI would hope those interested in marriage would look for a man to treat them lovingly and want him to be a man of his word with great character and...........you fill in the rest. If people are hung up on the color then they are missing the point.
Marriage is hard enough as it is. Searching for a color or money or whatever, only makes it harder.