I really hate the phrase "hair porn"

Charla

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This is a personal vent (that I'm making public LOL!), not meant to be offensive.

How did the phrase "hair porn" start being used to describe God's Glory? The basis for describing a woman's hair as her "crown and glory" is 3 scriptures:

1 Cor 11:14,15 - Does not nature itself teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a dishonor to him; but if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her? Because her hair is given her instead of a headdress.

Song of Solomon 7:5-6 - Your head upon you is like Car′mel, and the tresses of your head are like wool dyed reddish purple. The king is held bound by the flowings. How beautiful you are, and how pleasant you are, O beloved girl, among exquisite delights!

Jeremiah 13:8 - “Say to the king and to the lady, ‘Seat yourselves in a lower place, for down from you heads you crown of beauty will certainly come.’

On the other hand...

What is porn? We all know what it is, but I'll let the dictionary define it. Cambridge Dictionary of American English describes it as "pictures, movies, or writing that show or describe sexual acts or naked people for the purpose of exciting people sexually, and usually for no other purpose" Besides the definition of porn, the connotation stirs up thoughts of degradation, exploitation and abuse.

Is that what our BEAUTIFUL hair is? Pictures for the purpose of exciting people sexually, and usually for no other purpose -- something to be degraded, exploited and abused? Of course not! Why degrade ourselves like that?

We tell ourselves and other ladies on this forum that our hair is delicate, treat it like a fine cashmere sweater, view it as delicate as silk, baby your hair, protect your hair. We carefully go thru trial and error to find the right products and techniques to maintain our hair. We get offended if someone disrespects our hair, question our hair, call it out of it's name like "nappy" or "buckshots."

Yet, we (I use that term loosely because I don't and many ladies don't) turn around and call it PORN? What sense does that make? Why are we degrading what we and other women have worked so hard to grow and maintain?

Our hair is one of God's most beautiful and fantastic creations! He views it in high regard. I just believe we should describe it with more dignity.


 
I think the term is used to describe hair that is desirable. I get what you are saying but I don't think people analyze it to the extent you have.
 
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ETA: I've never really paid attention to the expression but I get your perspective. It kinda makes it hard to want to share those threads with non-hair-crazy/hair board people. I would so get the side eye :lachen:
 
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Neither is it a porn forum or a bashing forum but it still happens here. I don't expect everybody or anybody to agree with me which is the reason the first thing I said is it is a personal vent.
 
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OP, what can I say there are a lot of exhibitionists on this website.

I'm practising hair celibacy right now hence why I've stopped posting my hair pics. I believe there are a lot of women here who after losing their hair virginity, have lost all shame.

Honestly I've lost count of the number of back fat I've seen on this forum. Each one, telling their own story. I remember the days Hair porn was soft. But now it has got too X-rated for my own liking. I mean why does the camera have to zoom in that far? I don't want to see your damn hair follicles.

I miss vintage hair porn. That had some style/class about it. Lately.. everything is a little hardcore. :look:
 
You've taken the phrase to a different level. Like a PP said it's nothing more than hair that is desirable, that will make you drool. Much like what porn does to people not what porn literally is. Nothing more.
 
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Honestly, they are some pretty kids :)
 
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OP, what can I say there are a lot of exhibitionists on this website.

I'm practising hair celibacy right now hence why I've stopped posting my hair pics. I believe there are a lot of women here who after losing their hair virginity, have lost all shame.

Honestly I've lost count of the number of back fat I've seen on this forum. Each one, telling their own story. I remember the days Hair porn was soft. But now it has got too X-rated for my own liking. I mean why does the camera have to zoom in that far? I don't want to see your damn hair follicles.

I miss vintage hair porn. That had some style/class about it. Lately.. everything is a little hardcore. :look:

You know I read this from the bottom up and thought to myself is she serious with this. I could not believe I was reading that you had a problem with hair follicles. You really turned this one all the way around.

AND THEN

I scrolled up more and read who the poster was and:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:

Also everything that is old is NOT vintage. *drops mic
 
OP, what can I say there are a lot of exhibitionists on this website.

I'm practising hair celibacy right now hence why I've stopped posting my hair pics. I believe there are a lot of women here who after losing their hair virginity, have lost all shame.

Honestly I've lost count of the number of back fat I've seen on this forum. Each one, telling their own story. I remember the days Hair porn was soft. But now it has got too X-rated for my own liking. I mean why does the camera have to zoom in that far? I don't want to see your damn hair follicles.

I miss vintage hair porn. That had some style/class about it. Lately.. everything is a little hardcore. :look:

LOL You stoopid! I love it!
 
OP, what can I say there are a lot of exhibitionists on this website.

I'm practising hair celibacy right now hence why I've stopped posting my hair pics. I believe there are a lot of women here who after losing their hair virginity, have lost all shame.

Honestly I've lost count of the number of back fat I've seen on this forum. Each one, telling their own story. I remember the days Hair porn was soft. But now it has got too X-rated for my own liking. I mean why does the camera have to zoom in that far? I don't want to see your damn hair follicles.

I miss vintage hair porn. That had some style/class about it. Lately.. everything is a little hardcore. :look:

:spank: :lachen:
 
In fact, I Just came back from the wonderful thread posted on the second page with beautiful links toooo guesss whatttt......not nekkid women, nor beasilty, nor bdsm, nor anything obscene or lewddd.... Nope just good old fashion..... Hair..
 
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OP...Im sorry to hear that this offends you. Maybe you should try to avoid threads containing the phrase.....:yep: *Reclines back and kicks up legs on lazy boy to drool over some hair porn*
 
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lol..I just feel like the topic is soo not that deep.

even with that said the OP is still entitled to her opinion and I can respect that, after all she did pay her 6.50 just like me :)



Hope this Pic doesnt count as hair porn
 

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If anyone is a urgh, uh...stimulating themselves while looking at hair pictures up in here...
 
This isn't the Christian forum.

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exactly. And not everyone follows religion.

OP, what can I say there are a lot of exhibitionists on this website.


I'm practising hair celibacy right now hence why I've stopped posting my hair pics. I believe there are a lot of women here who after losing their hair virginity, have lost all shame.

Honestly I've lost count of the number of back fat I've seen on this forum. Each one, telling their own story. I remember the days Hair porn was soft. But now it has got too X-rated for my own liking. I mean why does the camera have to zoom in that far? I don't want to see your damn hair follicles.

I miss vintage hair porn. That had some style/class about it. Lately.. everything is a little hardcore. :look:

LAWD!!! :ill::ill::ill: If I could put all this in a siggy....

I like hair

I like porn

I disagree

:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:....two of the best things in life! :lick::lick:
 
I like hair

I like porn

I disagree

normally when people on a hair board say "why you taking this so serious? it's just hair!!" i give complete side-eye because of course it's serious, this is a hair board, anything related to hair is serious.

but this OP? this is def one case where it's not that serious (IMO). didn't expect christianity to come into it (really? are the hair porn threads only coming from the heathens and jezebels among us? are you more christian if you post porn and just call it hair pics... but still post up your nekkid-backed self?? i take it back; it is that serious. now i have to wonder if i will be smite down cuz i'm hungry for it and want more hair p0rn in my life).

you know who's the queen of hair porn tho? Ediese. oh my goodness either here or bhm whenever she posted ANYTHING it was just endless drooling :lick:. excessive porn! oh, mewedsi's straightening pics from last year were pretty awesome too. pretty much any post w/ more than 2-3 pics is porn worthy. AND the reason i signed up to be honest.

i also MUCH prefer hair porn to videos. I should start a thread in support of more XxX posts and less youtube posts (cuz i can't see those at work)

so i guess i'm saying Hair porn = winning : closeups, backfat and all :yep:
 
I can see where the phrase would turn some off if they take it literally. I think in this case though it is just meant as a cute edgy phrase.

Remember when Schuster said that Hillary Clinton was "pimping" out her daughter on the campaign trail? And the Clinton camp got him suspended "indefinitely" from MSNBC because that was such a HORRIBLE thing to say?

Same thing. Schuster was not really implying that Chelsea Clinton was doing actual prostitution. But for some crowds, including his bosses, using that term was over the line.
 
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