BeautifulMe
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I have been dating this guy for about 6 years and we recently moved in together. He was recently homeless and couldn't get an apartment in his name so I put the apartment in my name. Everything was good the first few weeks of moving in, but now he smokes marijuana everyday sand it has put a strain on our relationship.
When he smokes marijuana, he gets paranoid. He comes home and accuses me of sleeping with other men while he is at work and a few times he charged at me like he was going to hit me and I had to pull out a few weapons on him. The problem is that he pays most of the bills and I kind of need his money until I get my refund check from Financial Aid.
I do work part time but my income right now is about $150-200 a week. My plan was to just call the police and get him out but that is very dangerous for he will know where I stay and he is the type that will show up when he feels like it. Plus, he he gets angry when I threaten to kick him out since he says he pays bills in here. The police is really my last option right now, because he has a really bad temper and has been known to cause damage to things and I don't need that type of stuff on my rental record. I can get kicked out.
My plan was that I was going to make a fake eviction notice and put it on our door. That is the only way I think he will leave peacefully. I can't be stressed out everyday when he comes home high and tries to start arguments with me. I'm to my wits' end. As soon as I get my refund check, he has to go. However, I was wondering if any of you ladies had any ideas
When he smokes marijuana, he gets paranoid. He comes home and accuses me of sleeping with other men while he is at work and a few times he charged at me like he was going to hit me and I had to pull out a few weapons on him. The problem is that he pays most of the bills and I kind of need his money until I get my refund check from Financial Aid.
I do work part time but my income right now is about $150-200 a week. My plan was to just call the police and get him out but that is very dangerous for he will know where I stay and he is the type that will show up when he feels like it. Plus, he he gets angry when I threaten to kick him out since he says he pays bills in here. The police is really my last option right now, because he has a really bad temper and has been known to cause damage to things and I don't need that type of stuff on my rental record. I can get kicked out.
My plan was that I was going to make a fake eviction notice and put it on our door. That is the only way I think he will leave peacefully. I can't be stressed out everyday when he comes home high and tries to start arguments with me. I'm to my wits' end. As soon as I get my refund check, he has to go. However, I was wondering if any of you ladies had any ideas