I feel like I'm weird. All I've ever wanted was a ponytail. That's it. I feel like that's true SL. I've been grazing SL multiple times in the past 10 years, but never true. Something always happens to set me back: dryness, damage, color, bad cut, bad stylist. Something. This is the first time that I've ever tried to grow my hair out on my own.
When I left my regular stylist in March I was NL. I tried doing things myself and ended up with more damage than anything.
I saw a new stylist in April for a trim and relaxer. She...humiliated me and told me that my hair was terrible. She chopped off an inch for the trim. I couldn't blame her tho. It was bad. I started seeing a new, new stylist for relaxers and trims only starting in June. I see her every 6-8 weeks depending on my NG.
Anyway, its the end of September and I'm still NL (hence the "cold neck"). I started MT and rollersetting so hopefully I'll see grazing SL by 1/09.