glam-
Well-Known Member
Thanks, ladies for all of the comments, suggestions, etc.
I haven't been back in this thread in a while- but I feel like typing it last week or whenever was kind of liberating for me. I guess it allowed me to confront the feelings, acknowledge the jealousy, and stop being focused on someone in the past. I've felt a lot better since then. As corny as it sounds, I also made a list of the great things about me and what makes me special & phenomenal. I also realized that I didn't have to live up to whatever standard "super-girlfriend" had set in the past. Our relationship is our relationship and I will not allow a toxic feeling to get in my way- that's never been me, so why should I succumb to it now.
Again, thanks for all the encouragement.
I haven't been back in this thread in a while- but I feel like typing it last week or whenever was kind of liberating for me. I guess it allowed me to confront the feelings, acknowledge the jealousy, and stop being focused on someone in the past. I've felt a lot better since then. As corny as it sounds, I also made a list of the great things about me and what makes me special & phenomenal. I also realized that I didn't have to live up to whatever standard "super-girlfriend" had set in the past. Our relationship is our relationship and I will not allow a toxic feeling to get in my way- that's never been me, so why should I succumb to it now.
Again, thanks for all the encouragement.