HoneyDew
Well-Known Member
I am asking because marriage pressure is rearing its ugly head for me way too often these days.
I sent my mom the picture you see there in my avatar. This is her response
(Shunta is my sister):
I see - the picture of you and Doug. It's nice.
Do you guys plan on getting married. I hope you and Shunta decide to marry your partners.
erplexed I have not responded to her yet. She has been asking this a lot lately. Even my aunt, my mom's sister, brought it up to my cousin. My cousin said that her family was out to dinner recently and Doug and I came up. Why were they talking about this over dinner?!?! My aunt said "I want to know what Doug's intentions are for my niece. Does he plan on marrying her?"
That makes me think my mom has been talking to her sister about it.
Okay so I know since Doug and I have been together for almost 4 years people think marriage is the next step.
BUT I AM REALLY IN NO RUSH.
I enjoy owning and living in my own home and having my freedom. I love this man to death and cannot imagine myself with anyone else. But why do people think you HAVE to get married???
(okay confession : He still lives in the house that he owned with his ex-wife. To me, there are remnants of here there. I don't want to leave my home sweet home that I am so proud of to live "there". But, I have never told him that because he LOVES his house and has commented that he wants to grow old there.
nah that can't be why I don't want to do it!)
I sent my mom the picture you see there in my avatar. This is her response
(Shunta is my sister):
I see - the picture of you and Doug. It's nice.
Do you guys plan on getting married. I hope you and Shunta decide to marry your partners.
erplexed I have not responded to her yet. She has been asking this a lot lately. Even my aunt, my mom's sister, brought it up to my cousin. My cousin said that her family was out to dinner recently and Doug and I came up. Why were they talking about this over dinner?!?! My aunt said "I want to know what Doug's intentions are for my niece. Does he plan on marrying her?"
That makes me think my mom has been talking to her sister about it.
Okay so I know since Doug and I have been together for almost 4 years people think marriage is the next step.
BUT I AM REALLY IN NO RUSH.
I enjoy owning and living in my own home and having my freedom. I love this man to death and cannot imagine myself with anyone else. But why do people think you HAVE to get married???
(okay confession : He still lives in the house that he owned with his ex-wife. To me, there are remnants of here there. I don't want to leave my home sweet home that I am so proud of to live "there". But, I have never told him that because he LOVES his house and has commented that he wants to grow old there.
nah that can't be why I don't want to do it!)
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