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Moving forward and onward
OPster I would ENCOURAGE my husband to have family time in our home......even if it meant creating a "man-cave" for him. I would be the gracious hostess with the beer, music or whatever they may need.
If the brother invited his GF to the event, I will keep her distracted for an hour or two and offer to drop her off at home.
That's the only suggestion I have since you don't want to go out with them. But definitely don't talk to the brother. You can also suggest to your husband if he feels uncomfortable that he could graciously leave.
But the brother is being messy, I believe unintentionally, but he wants his brother to "join him" in his mid-life crisis.
If the brother invited his GF to the event, I will keep her distracted for an hour or two and offer to drop her off at home.
That's the only suggestion I have since you don't want to go out with them. But definitely don't talk to the brother. You can also suggest to your husband if he feels uncomfortable that he could graciously leave.
But the brother is being messy, I believe unintentionally, but he wants his brother to "join him" in his mid-life crisis.