Keep1Belle
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Ok has anyone done this and been successful. Me and bf have been dating abiut 4 months. we had/have sex and it is good.
I am kind of disappointed in myslef in that I am always growing in my faith, but the ONE thing I cannot do/give up is being celibate. One should have more self control and I feel as though I am cheating the ability to strengthen my relationship with God and in my walk to be a better Christian, by having this sex thing loom over me.
Also I really dont want to be on bc anymore, its not healthy, I have adverse reactions to a lot of condoms so sex without protection is a no-no. I am still on the BC for now...
I like/am falling in love with my bf, we are compatible in a lot of ways. He is a Christian as well and we have skirted the issue, though he was opposed to the abstaining, not sure how opposed in it was brought up in a joking/non-chalant manner.
So has anyone been able to make te switch, any suggestions??
I am kind of disappointed in myslef in that I am always growing in my faith, but the ONE thing I cannot do/give up is being celibate. One should have more self control and I feel as though I am cheating the ability to strengthen my relationship with God and in my walk to be a better Christian, by having this sex thing loom over me.
Also I really dont want to be on bc anymore, its not healthy, I have adverse reactions to a lot of condoms so sex without protection is a no-no. I am still on the BC for now...
I like/am falling in love with my bf, we are compatible in a lot of ways. He is a Christian as well and we have skirted the issue, though he was opposed to the abstaining, not sure how opposed in it was brought up in a joking/non-chalant manner.
So has anyone been able to make te switch, any suggestions??