Oops, This is hitting close to home. My son purchased a house and has a roommate to help him pay the mortgage. This is a great deal, especially since 95% of the time the guy lives with his girlfriend.
In my neck of the woods, I meet young white guys that are doing this all the time. One will purchase the house and then invite roommates to help defray the monthly cost. Everyone's happy. When someone wants to leave--next roommate or the owner can invite everyone to leave due to pending marriage.
I'm with you on this... I knew a lot of guys (mostly white) who did this... one person either bought a house and took roommates, or a group of people rented a house and they all lived there.
In fact, my 26-year-old brother is doing this now. They don't own the house, but three guys live there. He's doing this as a way to pay off credit card and student loan debt, and then save to pay for a house later on.
I think this is way better than living at home, and financially smarter in the short term than having one's own apartment if one doesn't have a job that pays enough to make that feasible.
That being said, as with any other situation, a woman needs to know exactly what a man's plan is regarding his future. If he seems like he wants to stay in a bachelor pad with roommates until the day he dies, well... move on. Also, if I met a never-married man over 35 still doing this, I might raise an eyebrow.
I dated a guy who did the house-with-roommates thing and ultimately bought his own house when he was about 33. The crazy thing is, one of the other guys in the first house got married and the guy's brother then asked my guy if he needed a roommate in my guy's new house.
Thank goodness my guy turned him down, but the brother would be an example of the type of man to avoid... he's not doing anything to move toward self-sufficiency and perhaps marrying and establishing a home with his wife, but wants to constantly live with someone to save money.