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i def want to join this is my first challenge and I'm excited!!! stretched I'm exactly 9 inches
Hello Ladies:
After months of thought, trying every hairstyle and regimen suggested, I have decided to end my natural journey. I have had your support and the support of family and friends but right now, at this point, it's not something I want to continue with. I may regret it or I may not. But after 8 mths, I'm done. thank you for your support.
Hello Ladies:
After months of thought, trying every hairstyle and regimen suggested, I have decided to end my natural journey. I have had your support and the support of family and friends but right now, at this point, it's not something I want to continue with. I may regret it or I may not. But after 8 mths, I'm done. thank you for your support.
I'm feeling better about my situation. I spoke to my friend and she just looked at me like I was crazy. Mind you she has naturally long wavy hair. She told me she loved it and advised me to wait and if I really feel that way to suck it up and wear a hat. lol. Not what I expected but I liked the hat idea. lol. My mom who doesn't like that I went natural can't keep her hands out of my hair and did my twists for me cause she wanted to play with my hair. lol.... While she was playing with it, she confessed that she loved my hair but really hates the length. ANd I had to agree. It's not the texture that is bothering me but that it's so short. I can't wait for it to get long so I will be taking the required steps to grow healthy long hair. Natural hair. I may change my mind in the future but as of right now, I am staying natural.
Just checking in, currently PSing in cornrows. I've been using AO White Camelia(sp?) as a leave in and sealing with castor oil. Really falling in love with castor oil . i like the AOWC, seems to smooth and soften my hair very nicely.
Congrats on meeting your goals!!!!!I HAVE MISSED YOU LADIES SOOO MUCH.
I have had a crazy,eventful life the last 8 weeks and unable to get online at all really but I am back.
I did an intense job search all summer and landed a dream job working in my field (Social Work)!!! I am working full time for the first time since I was pregnant! I was stay at home mom 2 1/2 years, then worked partime and now BACK IN THE WORKING WORLD!
DH changed careers!
Baby is 3 1/2 and doing great!
We all got the flu and the baby got two ear infections (right after I started my job) BUT with family support I didn't miss a beat.
I am now at my pre-pregnancy weight! I lost 20lbs total this year, 10lbs in the last 5 weeks!!! I am a perfect size 8! All done by eating right and exercising!
I AM ALSO NOW 30 YEARS OLD! I had so many goals for when I turned 30. In addition to more personal/spiritual goals.
I had three more goals
1. To be natural!
2. To go back to work full time at a job I love!
3. To return to a size 8!
I met all three and now I am back on my boards!!!
I HAVE MISSED YOU LADIES SOOO MUCH.
I have had a crazy,eventful life the last 8 weeks and unable to get online at all really but I am back.
I did an intense job search all summer and landed a dream job working in my field (Social Work)!!! I am working full time for the first time since I was pregnant! I was stay at home mom 2 1/2 years, then worked partime and now BACK IN THE WORKING WORLD!
DH changed careers!
Baby is 3 1/2 and doing great!
We all got the flu and the baby got two ear infections (right after I started my job) BUT with family support I didn't miss a beat.
I am now at my pre-pregnancy weight! I lost 20lbs total this year, 10lbs in the last 5 weeks!!! I am a perfect size 8! All done by eating right and exercising!
I AM ALSO NOW 30 YEARS OLD! I had so many goals for when I turned 30. In addition to more personal/spiritual goals.
I had three more goals
1. To be natural!
2. To go back to work full time at a job I love!
3. To return to a size 8!
I met all three and now I am back on my boards!!!
Things are going good. I'm just trying to use up all my hzir products before I buy any more. I'm also trying to to perfect my knky twists so I can start protecting my hair. I don't care for wigs, but I might have to bust some out!
Great progress!! Don't you love the puff now? I know I do and can't wait until it's huge and puffalicious by spring! Until then I'm twisting and wigging to preserve my length. So far, so good!
Explosiva9,
Do you want to hold on at least until you make a year? At least two more inches of growth may make a world of difference and help you fall in love with your hair even more. Even if you relax, you may not like the length, since you seem to miss it. I straightened my hair a few weeks ago and HATED it! Even though I was totally shocked by the length in 5 1/2 months of growth, the shorter layers gave me minimal styling options. Just a suggestion to hold out a little longer and see what happens, you can PS in a lacefront and just moisturize and grow.
Either way, we're here to support you no matter what and as long as you're happy, we are!