shortycocoa
Hair Weave Killer
Nope...I never really do. I asked my SO months ago if he regretted the fact that we got.it in so soon after we started dating. He said he didn't because it just felt right....I told him I felt the same way.
My exhusband I was with for 20 years, I waited 3 months before sleeping with him. I didn't know it was a rule at the time. Just felt right to wait.
People in my thread about cooking for your man said I broke the LHCF cardinal rule by doing so before we were married.
Isn't 'waiting' a rule as well, the only way to get him to respect you. IDK. I broke that one too. I only waited like 5 weeks, mostly because we spent 3-4 days out of a week together from the moment we met.
You followed it or no?
Nope...I never really do. I asked my SO months ago if he regretted the fact that we got.it in so soon after we started dating. He said he didn't because it just felt right....I told him I felt the same way.
No we did not wait. Personally I can't afford to wait 3 months to find out that your coloring game is whack. There are certain things that I need sexually and I have to make sure that you know how to do them before we commit.
The 90 day rule is crap. It's not foolproof. Making a man wait for sex after 90 days is sure way to get played. I can guarantee you he will be smashing a bunch of chicks on the side while he waits the 91st day to smash you off. Just keep your legs closed til marriage and you will be good. Men have no problem waiting for sex until after marriage if they genuinely want to be with you.
The 90 day rule is crap. It's not foolproof. Making a man wait for sex after 90 days is sure way to get played. I can guarantee you he will be smashing a bunch of chicks on the side while he waits the 91st day to smash you off. Just keep your legs closed til marriage and you will be good. Men have no problem waiting for sex
are there things that you can't simply teach/tell him to do? jk
For me, it wasn't about respect. I just wanted to make sure the dude met my series of tests
I did the whole waiting-until-marriage deal and it was a disaster. He was the worst lover ever. I felt I went back in time during the Puritan days and would never make that mistake again.
Some people are "unlearnable".
yea but your ex situation isn't the normal expectation.
I guess you could but if you're not open to sucking toes or front to back then I don't want you! LOL
and yet there are plenty of wives here who didnt wait til marriage, and then those who are waiting and still imagining that wedding with no one in sight.
i think that statement was meant to suggest that some of their BFs, now husbands, might have been getting it in on the side anyways this is obviously not the case for all couples. men can wait. but i've seen guys faithfully waiting with the main girl and getting it in with randoms. sometimes main girl finds out and sometimes she doesn't and they live happily every after.