Fake Medical?

Why is he faking a deployment?

  • His wife is pregnant/has a newborn

    Votes: 8 28.6%

  • He will “die” during deployment (exit strategy)

    Votes: 9 32.1%

  • He is courting someone new

    Votes: 7 25.0%

  • Other (post your theory)

    Votes: 4 14.3%
  • Total voters
    28
Kindheart said:
Ask her “don’t you find that suspicious? How come he still has this ID if it’s a mistake ? Ask her to show him his ID (to check his picture ,something “fun”). If he refuses she should say something along the line of “you seem a bit secretive “ . She probably won’t do it if she s not even wondering about everything that has been transpired so far. Cant you speak to her mom at all ?
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I am not talking to her mom because I’m not trying to lose my job. It’s like when someone’s being beat up by her man and you go try and beat his butt and next thing you know both of them turn around and start beating you up for “meddling.”
 
Brownie said:
STOP!!! :lachen::lachen::lachen:This thread has been better than some novels. :lol:... @Farida seriously though this friend of yours seems to be very naive—-sad considering she has children. It’s not just about her safety.
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Dude and I haven’t even posted half of what has happened. I don’t have he time or energy and I have to be careful because you never know who is a member or lurking...

I seriously want to meet this guy again shake his hand ask him for options to write a book and movie.
 
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Farida said:
Things that convince me he is a total fraud:

1. He has not introduced her to any friends. Says all his friends are back East. How do you live in your current state for over 15 months and have ZERO friends.

2. She has not met any of his family. Says his immediate family lives in the UK. They have never skyped or face-timed or anything. She says they will come to the wedding. He claims not to have enough leave from work to take her to meet them.

3. She has never been to his place. He claims to be military and lives on the barracks. But she has never been on base.

4. He claims to be a nurse but I cannot find his license.

5. His car is registered to a WOMAN. When she confronted him he said he bought it used and the dealer forgot to submit the title paperwork.

6. Again, claims to be military but says he has fainted several times in her presence due to reduced lung function from cancer. No military branch would let you serve with that condition and if you were serving they will discharge you.

7. He said he burned his ex-gf’s car because she cheated on him. He said he punched his sister’s boyfriend for a comment...he said he was suspended without pay for two months for punching someone...

8. I looked for him online and he has zero online presence. I put his last name in google and got ZERO results. So supposedly he is the only person in the entire internet with that last name. Or even that name as a first name. GTOHWTBS.

I COULD GO ON...

But all of this PLUS the STD thing. That is why I fear for her safety. This guy is lying all around, brags about violence and IMO gave her an STD. Doesn’t this sound like a bad lifetime movie, or who the bleep did I marry on ID?
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What nationality is your friend and her boyfriend?
 
Y’all. I found his WIFE’s FB page. Private but with both of them on the profile pic. I told her and showed her and she almost passed out. Hyper-ventilating and literally falling to her knees.

Tell me why she then said two days later, “I am giving him the benefit of the doubt.”

She took him as a date to a mutual friend’s event on Sunday. Tell me why by Monday his wife’s facebook has been deleted and he has a new fb with only her family as his friends. She totally told him!!

Anyway, since I told her several times I am just here with popcorn. Every time I think this cannot get any more salacious it does.
 
Farida said:
Y’all. I found his WIFE’s FB page. Private but with both of them on the profile pic. I told her and showed her and she almost passed out. Hyper-ventilating and literally falling to her knees.

Tell me why she then said two days later, “I am giving him the benefit of the doubt.”

She took him as a date to a mutual friend’s event on Sunday. Tell me why by Monday his wife’s facebook has been deleted and he has a new fb with only her family as his friends. She totally told him!!

Anyway, since I told her several times I am just here with popcorn. Every time I think this cannot get any more salacious it does.
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So he told his alleged wife to delete her Facebook and she had no issue with that ? That’s weird
 
Farida said:
Y’all. I found his WIFE’s FB page. Private but with both of them on the profile pic. I told her and showed her and she almost passed out. Hyper-ventilating and literally falling to her knees.

Tell me why she then said two days later, “I am giving him the benefit of the doubt.”

She took him as a date to a mutual friend’s event on Sunday. Tell me why by Monday his wife’s facebook has been deleted and he has a new fb with only her family as his friends. She totally told him!!

Anyway, since I told her several times I am just here with popcorn. Every time I think this cannot get any more salacious it does.
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I wonder what he told his wife to get her to delete her Facebook. That’s weird.

Your friend doesn’t care if he is married, or if he’s in witness protection, or if he faked his death and is on the run. She does not care. She got a man and she ain’t letting him go.
 
Kindheart said:
is there a chance this woman is his ex wife ?
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Farida said:
Y’all. I found his WIFE’s FB page. Private but with both of them on the profile pic. I told her and showed her and she almost passed out. Hyper-ventilating and literally falling to her knees.

Tell me why she then said two days later, “I am giving him the benefit of the doubt.”

She took him as a date to a mutual friend’s event on Sunday. Tell me why by Monday his wife’s facebook has been deleted and he has a new fb with only her family as his friends. She totally told him!!

Anyway, since I told her several times I am just here with popcorn. Every time I think this cannot get any more salacious it does.
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Omg! So what excuse did he give her?

Anyway, she does not love herself and can’t be saved.
 
Farida said:
Her problem is she has been running her mouth and introducing dude to people at work. So almost everyone around her in the office is snooping and gossiping.
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:rofl: she has to learn on her own. You can’t want better for her than she wants for herself.
LongiLox said:
Don’t stop snooping. Just stop sharing with her. Feel free to update this thread with whatever you find. :lachen:
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:rofl:
 
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