Fake Medical?

[Farida]

Ok, this is the best thread I accidentally bumped into on a slow work Monday. Chile I read every post! The only question I have is, can we get a peen pic? Cause given her level of I don't care I'm going to hang in there, it must be made of gold with encrusted diamonds. And I ain't never seen a gold one!

Right? Even DH was like man, this dude has some serious game. Lol

But just so y’all know, #noblackwomenharmed in this scenario. Not the wife, not the friend.

 

[Farida]

I am actually mad at this dude for being on a fake deployment. Everyone in the office is thirsty for some more tea but it’s dry now.

So the next conundrum is why he faked a deployment. Some say it’s to make his exit. He’ll “die” on deployment. Others say it’s to facilitate a divorce. Others say his wife is preggers and he knows he won’t be able to lie to her with a newborn to hang out with his side chick. So ladies, what do y’all think?

 

[giigii613]

I would go with the wife is preggers or he is dealing with another woman and needs time to properly court her.

 

[mrselle]

Right? Even DH was like man, this dude has some serious game. Lol

But just so y’all know, #noblackwomenharmed in this scenario. Not the wife, not the friend.

Girl, why didn't you say so? I was all concerned.

Carry on. Lol.

 

[SweetNic_JA]

Right? Even DH was like man, this dude has some serious game. Lol

But just so y’all know, #noblackwomenharmed in this scenario. Not the wife, not the friend.

All this and #NBWH? I may have to unsubscribe OP
Seriously just breathed a small sigh of relief.

 

[Farida]

All this and #NBWH? I may have to unsubscribe OP
Seriously just breathed a small sigh of relief.

Now you know this story is too juicy. I feel like a black woman would knowingly let a man run game on her versus believing all these crazy lies like she does.

Her birthday is coming up and my friend was like, “you wanna bet he ‘surprises’ her by flying in just for her birthday?!” LOL. I wasn’t going to go but I think I will just in case he shows. I wanna be there for the shenanigans.

 

[oneastrocurlie]

I think he's going MIA

 

[Farida]

I should add a poll. LOL

 

[Farida]

I made a poll. Please choose.

 

[nyeredzi]

i love the poll! i chose he will die, not because i think it's most likely, but because it would be the best ending to the story. most likely situation is his time is tied up with another woman for some reason, not sure if it's the wife or a 3rd girl, but he'll be back when he can get some more free time.

 

[GreenEyedJen]

I voted “other”—all of the above.

 

[fluffyforever]

I think his wife is pregnant. Your friend is a fool.

 

[LadyChe]

I vote he took his wife on their anniversary vacation or they moved. His exit strategy is that his covert deployment status will get mysteriously extended. Maybe he’ll get injured on deployment so he has some extended hospital stay and can’t be around while he recovers.

This story is crazy.

 

[caribeandiva]

5. His car is registered to a WOMAN. When she confronted him he said he bought it used and the dealer forgot to submit the title paperwork.

That made me holler because I worked at the dmv for years and know for a fact that doesn’t happen. Your friend is in for a rude awakening. This dude has so many red flags he can have his own parade!

 

[caribeandiva]

And I bet she’s going to marry him still...

Duh! He’s such a great catch!

 

[awhyley]

I would go with the wife is preggers or he is dealing with another woman and needs time to properly court her.

I thought both, which is why I voted 'Other'. Either way, he's getting ready to ghost.

 

[Farida]

I forgot to add “he is taking the time to finalize a divorce with his wife.” To the poll. If I add that will it reset the poll?

 

[awhyley]

I forgot to add “he is taking the time to finalize a divorce with his wife.” To the poll. If I add that will it reset the poll?

Nah, don't bother, because we know that he's not doing that.
Stringing women along is his game.

 

[feferity]

This story reminds me of an episode of Law & Order: SVU where a guy was dating/engaged to this woman and she ends up killed. Turns out he'd told her and her parents that he was part of special ops in the CIA and he "had a hit out on him" by an extremist Muslim group, so her parents thought they'd killed her to get back at him. Turns out the guy was an accountant from the suburbs with a wife, kids, and dog and he'd killed her himself cuz he knew the jig was up.

This real life version is far more entertaining though

 

[Farida]

This story reminds me of an episode of Law & Order: SVU where a guy was dating/engaged to this woman and she ends up killed. Turns out he'd told her and her parents that he was part of special ops in the CIA and he "had a hit out on him" by an extremist Muslim group, so her parents thought they'd killed her to get back at him. Turns out the guy was an accountant from the suburbs with a wife, kids, and dog and he'd killed her himself cuz he knew the jig was up.

This real life version is far more entertaining though

Oh wow. All these fake dudes be “special ops” “fbi” “CIA” “intelligence”

I hope she doesn’t end up dead or he doesn’t kill his wife.

 

[SlimPickinz]

Girl, why didn't you say so? I was all concerned.

Carry on. Lol.

I was honestly upset that OP was willing to spread her friend’s gossip like this. But she white so F her.

 

[SweetNic_JA]

I forgot to add “he is taking the time to finalize a divorce with his wife.” To the poll. If I add that will it reset the poll?

Hmm, just thought of one. Maybe he is going to jail.

 

[Farida]

 

[Farida]

Y’all he got injured on his special mission. He’d better die. He’s probably going to have a purple heart tomorrow morning

 

[awhyley]

Y’all he got injured on his special mission. He’d better die. He’s probably going to have a purple heart tomorrow morning

Mission Accomplished!

He's on the move. Now the real drama is about to begin. Wedding 'delayed'.

 

[huxtable]

How is your friend? Is she upset? Is the wedding delayed?

 

[Farida]

How is your friend? Is she upset? Is the wedding delayed?

@awhyley

They already postponed the wedding due to his “deployment.”

 

[prettyinpurple]

Nah, don't bother, because we know that he's not doing that.
Stringing women along is his game.

I agree. Divorce is not what's happening here.

I was gonna say that this sounds like a situation where the woman pays for the ring, but you said he bought it. If we believe that...

 

[Farida]

I agree. Divorce is not what's happening here.

I was gonna say that this sounds like a situation where the woman pays for the ring, but you said he bought it. If we believe that...

He bought the ring but everyone believes it is fake. She has never seen the receipts, appraisal etc. My friend who is very good with jewelry said it looks fake.

 

[metro_qt]

He bought the ring but everyone believes it is fake. She has never seen the receipts, appraisal etc. My friend who is very good with jewelry said it looks fake.

Does she have the ring? Why does she not go get it appraised herself?