Kalia1
Well-Known Member
I am newly married to a man who has a daughter from his first marriage.
I haven't met his daughter or his ex-wife. I have spoken to his daughter over the phone only.
She is a pre-teen whom my husband adores. It's the first time I've been a step-parent so this is new to me. I am a mother so I have been trying to empathise with his ex-wife's position.
She feels that before their daughter can come visit her Dad she must tour our home. He has been getting his daughter for years and never once did she ask to see his place when he lived alone.
I trying to be mature told my husband "okay" just to ward off the drama. I am a very private person and particular about whom I let into my home.
Being that the daughter is a pre-teen if anything were to happen she could call her mother and exopress herself at anytime when she is with us. Even if she felt uncomfortable she could contact her Mom. She has her own cellphone. She isn't a baby!
His ex-wife stated that if she isn't allowed to see every room of our home he will have to see their daughter in public places only?
This is crazy! He has been getting her every summer for years. Now this?
What is the matter with this chica? I have a funny feeling that it's always going to be something with her.
They have been divorced for over 10 years after a 18 month marriage.
Surely by now she should be over IT!
Thanks for letting me vent
P.S. My husband is adamant against her coming to our home.
I haven't met his daughter or his ex-wife. I have spoken to his daughter over the phone only.
She is a pre-teen whom my husband adores. It's the first time I've been a step-parent so this is new to me. I am a mother so I have been trying to empathise with his ex-wife's position.
She feels that before their daughter can come visit her Dad she must tour our home. He has been getting his daughter for years and never once did she ask to see his place when he lived alone.
I trying to be mature told my husband "okay" just to ward off the drama. I am a very private person and particular about whom I let into my home.
Being that the daughter is a pre-teen if anything were to happen she could call her mother and exopress herself at anytime when she is with us. Even if she felt uncomfortable she could contact her Mom. She has her own cellphone. She isn't a baby!
His ex-wife stated that if she isn't allowed to see every room of our home he will have to see their daughter in public places only?
This is crazy! He has been getting her every summer for years. Now this?
What is the matter with this chica? I have a funny feeling that it's always going to be something with her.
They have been divorced for over 10 years after a 18 month marriage.
Surely by now she should be over IT!
Thanks for letting me vent
P.S. My husband is adamant against her coming to our home.
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