NapfroConsulate
Well-Known Member
What I mean is that sometimes I'm the "dude" in my relationship with my man. I love him to death but when the we bought the flat screen I hooked it up or I put the computer together I removed the viruses or I took it in for an oil change or things some people may attribute to your man doing if you have one. So today I was going to do something to the computer but my SO wanted to know what I was up to and I explained to him what it was and he said he could do it.
I hesitated at first then thought about it and said sure. I'm so used to doing this stuff myself or taking over or bossing him around I never thought to ask him to do it. So he took over and fixed what I was doing and voila it was perfect! I complemented him and thanked him and said he did a great job. Then I started to think about it and felt guilty that I a lot of times might have, not purposefully, emasculated him and it felt good to let him "Take Charge"
I don't know if I am explaining it right but does anyone know what I mean?
I hesitated at first then thought about it and said sure. I'm so used to doing this stuff myself or taking over or bossing him around I never thought to ask him to do it. So he took over and fixed what I was doing and voila it was perfect! I complemented him and thanked him and said he did a great job. Then I started to think about it and felt guilty that I a lot of times might have, not purposefully, emasculated him and it felt good to let him "Take Charge"
I don't know if I am explaining it right but does anyone know what I mean?