I prefer the shower to myself but every now and then I let him in....he gives the best turkish baths ever!!!...Thats my body exfoliation until the next time I need one.
I don't see the intimacy in this unless you're just in there messing around. Are we talking real shower where you wash your tail? If so I don't want nobody in there looking at that......that's just private. I feel weird gettin down scrubbin in front of someone.
I love taking showers w/ my SO. We talk to each other, laugh, make jokes ... it's quite a bond for us