'self Loving' When You Have A Significant Other

[Honey Bee]

say what nah? you just had a real dry spell or you move from one so directly to the next cause

like it never said hey i'm alive down here check on me?

It didn't even occur to me to self-love. For what?? There was always somebody available.

Omg me too!

Interesting. I wonder if that's a 'thing.'

 

[lux10023]

That's my situation I can maybe count the times I've self loved

I've always had a big crayon around going to town on my lotus garden that when the crayon wasn't there I was good I needed a break!!!!!!! lol

Married the amount of sex dh and I have I couldnt imagine self love on top of that my vag would be destroyed... Lol
Destroyeeeedddddeddddd

It didn't even occur to me to self-love. For what?? There was always somebody available.


Interesting. I wonder if that's a 'thing.'

 

[Lucie]

People that don't EVER do it are weird to me.

I used to be one of them. And pretty snobby about not doing it. Like why would I do that? I gotta man! I figured it was an SO-only thing to do. Or maybe because I had so much of it with my ex, I felt like why should I do it on my own?

One day, I kept trying and just could not get it right. I felt like the Haitian, "Litte Engine that Could." I watched YouTube vids some x-sites and just was not getting it. I figured how could I be so marvelous with two, and suck ballz alone? I just would not give up, turned my phone off. There's nothing worse, than seeing DAD or UNCLE calling while trying to self-love. I vowed I would not leave my room until it happened, and like rain on thirsty crops a downpour occurred.

Well, there's no going back. I'm good at what I do.

 

[Honey Bee]

That's my situation I can maybe count the times I've self loved

I've always had a big crayon around going to town on my lotus garden that when the crayon wasn't there I was good I needed a break!!!!!!! lol

Married the amount of sex dh and I have I couldnt imagine self love on top of that my vag would be destroyed... Lol
Destroyeeeedddddeddddd

I do it on the rare occasion I'm planning on waking him up. I call it 'warming up the car'. TMI?

 

[Honey Bee]

I vowed I would not leave my room until it happened, and like rain on thirsty crops a downpour occurred.

 

[FelaShrine]

Nah son.

 

[Honey Bee]

Nah son.

re: ???

You so random.

 

[FelaShrine]

I just cant get with fingas. viberate and let me go sleep

 

[TayMac]

I bought this pink egg off Amazon. I love it so. It's quiet but still manages to wake a snoring man lol. But fingers are just fine too

 

[ladysaraii]

I just cant get with fingas. viberate and let me go sleep

You're so funny! I'm telling you, it's a different kind of orgasm. It feels better to me maybe bc it has time to build properly.

 

[Honey Bee]

I just cant get with fingas. viberate and let me go sleep

I love you.

 

[fatimablush]

Yea!

I mean...yea.. I heard this rumor too

 

[GeorginaSparks]

is this with toys or regula degula fingas

ive always used my fingers. toys dont work for me

 

[Kindheart]

We should never seek love and validation in others but always look for it inside ourselves . My man is an "addition" to my life not a need.

 

[NinaShamone]

We should never seek love and validation in others but always look for it inside ourselves . My man is an "addition" to my life not a need.

Aww, thats not what the thread is about.

 

[SheenaVee]

Aww, thats not what the thread is about.

 

[Kindheart]

Aww, thats not what the thread is about.

lol i just realized haha serves me well for not reading the whole post

 

[caribeandiva]

We should never seek love and validation in others but always look for it inside ourselves . My man is an "addition" to my life not a need.

Indeed that IS what this thread is all about. Sorry ladies I couldn't resist.

 

[SimplyWhole]

Try a peeled cucumber .....

 

[Babysaffy]