blackberry815
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When is it appropriate to ask your boyfriend how much money he gets paid??? What do you ladies think?
I think I might be in the minority here - but not until we are purchasing a large asset together (property, piece of land etc). I can't imagine asking him "what is your annual salary?". "What was your bonus last year?". But I also don't plan on living with someone before marriage and also don't plan on being married and renting. So I don't see the need to have the conversation until we're trying to figure out exactly what we, together, can afford to purchase.
I have an idea of how much he makes and I know he makes more now, than I will with my job out of grad school. He gave me a business card and told me I could call his office pretty early on. I've been to the office, I've met his boss and some of his co-workers and one of his clients...
Yes. Referring to my current situation and without knowing exactly (down to the dollar) how much he makes, I know enough.So you would get engaged to a man without knowing how much he makes?
Yes and I didn't have to ask.
I never had a man that I had to ask about him salary. He just told me a few months in....
When is it appropriate to ask your boyfriend how much money he gets paid??? What do you ladies think?