Damn, some of you "women" sure are cold...

[naturaline]

i dont really understand how it works -does one person rate the thread and thats how the stars stay?

i agree with what everyones saying- this site is for givin' encouragement and help not puttin each other down!

 

[Jas123]

I don't like that dang star thing anyway. I've made some posts to try to help someone out from the goodness of my heart, lol, and it'll get like 3 stars. I always share things that work good for me with everyone here and to get "rated" on that is kinda wrong....I mean what's the point?

I agree...how do you rate on somebody helping...either take the info or move on..imo

 

[Sharpened]

Can we not just get rid of it? I really do not pay any attention to it.

 

[Faith]

We are here to support one another and some of you chics give people's progress threads a one or two stars? Maybe I'm tripping up in here but I don't think so. Whats up with the haters on this hair board? Ain't no need to go there with the ratings. Got me over here smd head at almost 12:30 in the morning.

I know. Seeing that has been bugging me as well. I go out of my way to give it a 5 star when I see things like that. Why the need to give an update ONE star?? I personally think that feature should be removed. It's a bit clique anyway imo (at times). Half the time I don't know if the rating is because the hread was hated or the reader didn't get anything from it so they rate it a one. Know what I mean? Either way it's unnecessary imo.

 

[so1913]

The star rating system is just a cowardly way for people to express their unwarranted childish hatred without anyone knowing who they are. I say keep it, these people are misserable and if we can improve their lives by allowing them to hide behind a star and be nasty towards other members....well, we've done our community service here.

 

[so1913]

OT: So1913 your siggy pic and hair is simply gawgeous . It's growing like weeds gurl

Thanks lady! I'm glad you see the growth, cause' I see nuthin'

 

[Mizani_Mrs]

Dang, this thing is getting pretty deep. I am so lucky that i am not that detail oriented so i never ever pay attention to how many stars a thread gets. But as the mods always say...this board is open for folx under the age of 18 so we can't expect everyone to act like an adult. maybe they should think about deleting the star rating system. Or only have a system with 0 stars and 5 stars and alot of people will have to vote in order to get 5 stars...but everything else will be 0 stars... It takes away the abuse system and it also still provides a way for us to search and identify good helpful threads...

 

[fletgee]

To tell the truth, I have never paid attention to the stars.

I feel we all have things to share, ask, and discuss.

The stars (to me) are like opinions.

And we all know about opinions............

 

[Cayenne0622]

I always see the stars but didn't know what they meant. I thought a thread got a lot of stars when it had a lot of responses. lol I had no idea who was putting the stars there. lololol WHoo! Okay, duh! So, people can actually rate someone's thread. That's crazy! It seems like if you don't like the thread then you just ignore it.

 

[princezz]

wow!1 def never noticied the star ratings..now i will pay more attn!! For the hater--Dont HATE! Celebrate!

 

[darkangel25]

anytime I see a one-star rating....I'll rate it a 5 just to cancel out their simple ***.

I do that as well. I don't understand why some people rate threads so low.

 

[shunta]

To tell the truth, I have never paid attention to the stars.

I feel we all have things to share, ask, and discuss.

The stars (to me) are like opinions.

And we all know about opinions............

Me, either. Cant we all just get along?

 

[Ebonygurl00]

Dang, this thing is getting pretty deep. I am so lucky that i am not that detail oriented so i never ever pay attention to how many stars a thread gets. But as the mods always say...this board is open for folx under the age of 18 so we can't expect everyone to act like an adult. maybe they should think about deleting the star rating system. Or only have a system with 0 stars and 5 stars and alot of people will have to vote in order to get 5 stars...but everything else will be 0 stars... It takes away the abuse system and it also still provides a way for us to search and identify good helpful threads...

This sounds like a really good idea. I can't believe so many people never noticed the stars!! Well, I DO love detail, so that's probably why I did.

 

[Growinpainz]

Are you talking about the rating at the top of the thread? I never knew you could rate a thread.....why on earth would anyone want to?

I didn't know you could do that either

 

[Aalize]

Why is the rating system so important to some of you?

 

[*ElleB]

Dang, I've never noticed that but that sure is IMMATURE...

 

[MzOptimistic]

Welllll,

I don't think it's a lurker just someone or someones who life is miserable...I have never noticed the stars and don't really care....you got haters everywhere...this is nothing new to me.....this all ties in to what I was talking about how women treat each other...most women never have anything nice or positive to say about another women...and that is sadddddddd.....I know the nastiness, distasteful attitude firsthand from a thread that was shut down recently....and I followed that particular individual posts all across the board...and damn near all of her threads are negative...( not a stalker ) but I personally don't care about the ratings...I never get rated on my threads but...Do I care ask?....ask me again....DO I care?... hell to da naw cuz I get private emails from ladies asking me questions and it makes me feel good to know that I can help the next person reach her goals...and damn it, if you ask me if your hair is bra-strap...imma say yah...cuz I don't want to hurt anyone feelings....that's not me....

 

[Dannygirl]

Welllll,

I don't think it's a lurker just someone or someones who life is miserable...I have never noticed the stars and don't really care....you got haters everywhere...this is nothing new to me.....this all ties in to what I was talking about how women treat each other...most women never have anything nice or positive to say about another women...and that is sadddddddd.....I know the nastiness, distasteful attitude firsthand from a thread that was shut down recently....and I followed that particular individual posts all across the board...and damn near all of her threads are negative...( not a stalker ) but I personally don't care about the ratings...I never get rated on my threads but...Do I care ask?....ask me again....DO I care?... hell to da naw cuz I get private emails from ladies asking me questions and it makes me feel good to know that I can help the next person reach her goals...and damn it, if you ask me if your hair is bra-strap...imma say yah...cuz I don't want to hurt anyone feelings....that's not me....

very much agreed

 

[MonaLisa]

Welllll,

I don't think it's a lurker just someone or someones who life is miserable...I have never noticed the stars and don't really care....you got haters everywhere...this is nothing new to me.....this all ties in to what I was talking about how women treat each other...most women never have anything nice or positive to say about another women...and that is sadddddddd.....I know the nastiness, distasteful attitude firsthand from a thread that was shut down recently....and I followed that particular individual posts all across the board...and damn near all of her threads are negative...( not a stalker ) but I personally don't care about the ratings...I never get rated on my threads but...Do I care ask?....ask me again....DO I care?... hell to da naw cuz I get private emails from ladies asking me questions and it makes me feel good to know that I can help the next person reach her goals...and damn it, if you ask me if your hair is bra-strap...imma say yah...cuz I don't want to hurt anyone feelings....that's not me....

*jots down on remember to do list-- give tsmith's next thread 1 star...puts name right underneath Mizani's on the list...*

I'm playin...I'm playin tsmith...hair hug...
*trying to bring some levity up in this piece...*

 

[MzOptimistic]

*jots down on remember to do list-- give tsmith's next thread 1 star...puts name right underneath Mizani's on the list...*

I'm playin...I'm playin tsmith...hair hug...
*trying to bring some levity up in this piece...*

You silly, Mona but hey atleast I'll get 1 star

 

[EMJazzy]

Are you talking about the rating at the top of the thread? I never knew you could rate a thread.....why on earth would anyone want to?

My thoughts exactly!!

 

[Ebonygurl00]

Welllll,

I don't think it's a lurker just someone or someones who life is miserable...I have never noticed the stars and don't really care....you got haters everywhere...this is nothing new to me.....this all ties in to what I was talking about how women treat each other...most women never have anything nice or positive to say about another women...and that is sadddddddd.....I know the nastiness, distasteful attitude firsthand from a thread that was shut down recently....and I followed that particular individual posts all across the board...and damn near all of her threads are negative...( not a stalker ) but I personally don't care about the ratings...I never get rated on my threads but...Do I care ask?....ask me again....DO I care?... hell to da naw cuz I get private emails from ladies asking me questions and it makes me feel good to know that I can help the next person reach her goals...and damn it, if you ask me if your hair is bra-strap...imma say yah...cuz I don't want to hurt anyone feelings....that's not me....

Umm, care to PM me about the evil person?

 

[MzOptimistic]

Umm, care to PM me about the evil person?

Girl, you wanna get me kicked offa here and my hair draw back up and start breaking again...nope....

 

[Ebonygurl00]

Girl, you wanna get me kicked offa here and my hair draw back up and start breaking again...nope....

I'm gonna have to do some "research." I really have no life.

 

[cassie in paris]

Are you talking about the rating at the top of the thread? I never knew you could rate a thread.....why on earth would anyone want to?

I never knew you could do it either until now

 

[MzOptimistic]

I'm gonna have to do some "research." I really have no life.

The thread was shut down.....soooo you'll never find it

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Why is the rating system so important to some of you?

It's not the fact that it's "important", I just find it hateful that after people are kind enough to give us upates on their progress (which no one really has to do) some of us like to go and kick that person in the stomach. It probably makes me more annoyed than the person it happened too. Some women are just so friggin catty about everything. I'll be posting my updates soon and by George if I get a one star I'mma come and shoot the place up

 

[Sassafrass]

Wow, I never really paid much atention to the star ratings! I feel slow for not even seeing it! I cannot even come up with a bad reason for rating positive threads with one star. It's sad, but it doesn't affect the validity of the thread so it doesn't bother me nor deter me from entering the thread. I'm sure it doesn't bother you ladies either, so just keep on keeping on!

 

[MzOptimistic]

It's not the fact that it's "important", I just find it hateful that after people are kind enough to give us upates on their progress (which no one really has to do) some of us like to go and kick that person in the stomach. It probably makes me more annoyed than the person it happened too. Some women are just so friggin catty about everything. I'll be posting my updates soon and by George if I get a one star I'mma come and shoot the place up

Well,

Here's my 5 now

 

[fletgee]

Girl, you wanna get me kicked offa here and my hair draw back up and start breaking again...nope....

Too cute!!