godzchildtoo
Well-Known Member
So the guy I've been dating for the past 3 months just said this to me. Now I'm not sad, I'm angry! I think this is such a cop-out. I don't see myself as high maintenance, but I do expect respect and courtesy. He has his own business and was working on a million dollar deal and I didn't hear from him for 3 days. So when I called him I gave him hell for not having 60 seconds to pick up the phone or text and say hello. Oh and did I mention he's a self-proclaimed serial monogamist?! All in all, he's been a pleasant experience...I just consider it disrespectful when you say you're going to call and you don't. That's one of my pet peeves. And the more we tried to talk through it, the more we each drew our lines in the sand. And so I guess we just "broke up". As soon as he said that captioned phrase I was done because I figure if you don't think you can give me what I deserve, I'm not going to argue with you. And he said he has enough on his plate without feeling like he's failing me too. He thinks I overreacted, do you? I think HE overreacted, do you?
Oh...a few more relevant facts: we were not in a committed relationship, he's a great cook and cooks for me often (irrelevant, but I thought about missing those meals ), I used to see him about 4-5 days a week, he works a mile from my job and so he invited me to stay at his house Monday through Friday. I refused a permanent arrangement, but slept over often. I've met his son and family. So ..I don't think it was about someone else.
Oh...a few more relevant facts: we were not in a committed relationship, he's a great cook and cooks for me often (irrelevant, but I thought about missing those meals ), I used to see him about 4-5 days a week, he works a mile from my job and so he invited me to stay at his house Monday through Friday. I refused a permanent arrangement, but slept over often. I've met his son and family. So ..I don't think it was about someone else.