ang3lface816
Well-Known Member
I'm sorry OP. I know how you feel.. I'm just a little older than you, 22. I was 17 when I met my childs' father.. and he did me exactly the way your guy friend did you.. Leave it alone while you can, I kept going back to this guy.. and now I'm a single parent with no help from dude (and yes I applied for child support, but the state cant find him..).. I have a wonderful fiance now, who really loves me and my son.. And now at age 22, I can see where i went wrong.. So many signs..and i used to feel just like you.. He was lightskinned, and made it known that was his preference.. He even broke up with me when i was 6 mos pregnant, b/c he wasnt ready for relationship.. and within 4 mos, had already had two girlfriends.. one he ended up with for almost 2 years..
Take it from me sweetie.. Pain is only temporary.. its just the beginning of the healing process.. and you will get over it.. and you will love again..
What helped me get over it all, is just realizing that it was all a lie.. I had to realize.. that we were never as close as I thought. Had to realize that he never loved me.. and once i faced the facts and stopped making excuses for him.. and stopped putting myself down.. I got over it.. It's not because of your complexion,body shape or lack of.. that he is not with you. He is not b/c he chooses not to be... Just realize there is nothing you can do to change the way he feels.. But know that there is someone out there who will love you exactly the way you are, and love the things you hate about yourself..
Hope you feel better soon.
If you ever need someone to talk to ... u can pm me also.
Take it from me sweetie.. Pain is only temporary.. its just the beginning of the healing process.. and you will get over it.. and you will love again..
What helped me get over it all, is just realizing that it was all a lie.. I had to realize.. that we were never as close as I thought. Had to realize that he never loved me.. and once i faced the facts and stopped making excuses for him.. and stopped putting myself down.. I got over it.. It's not because of your complexion,body shape or lack of.. that he is not with you. He is not b/c he chooses not to be... Just realize there is nothing you can do to change the way he feels.. But know that there is someone out there who will love you exactly the way you are, and love the things you hate about yourself..
Hope you feel better soon.
If you ever need someone to talk to ... u can pm me also.
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