biancaantoinette
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I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now. At the beginning of the relationship everything was all gravy....until I got caught up in his family mess. He is the only one in his family that has never done drugs in his life and is one of 2 that doesnt have any criminal record. To me this speaks volumes..he has never given in to any sterotypes and is a AMAZING artist.
So... on to this family of his. They are a very nice bunch but use him like a piece of MEAT. He is soft spoken and persuasive but dont get me wrong is no push over. I really love him and care for him and may want to one day spend the rest of my life with him but his dad has kidney issues and is currently living with him on disability. his mom was living with his sister in an apartment under HIS NAME and wasnt paying any type of rent. no job no nothing. she got evicted so now the mom is living with him and the sister has no where to go unless he opens an apartment in his name for the like 5th time. by the time I want to buy a house he wont have any credit and where will his clingy family go. I really enjoy their company dont get me wrong but the man is 25 and is treated like hes 16. he does everything they tell him to do and call him out of his room like hes 4. he complains about being treated this way but still does nothing.
LHCF how to I get him to cut the cord in just some sort of way. I know the family will never change but its effecting him and our relationship. I cant do this little kid ish anymore. I am tired of seeing him so unhappy at his age. he is very talented and has alot of life ahead of him. and not to mention he more than likely is infected with this deadly disease that runs in his family
This just really saddens me because I love him so much.
So... on to this family of his. They are a very nice bunch but use him like a piece of MEAT. He is soft spoken and persuasive but dont get me wrong is no push over. I really love him and care for him and may want to one day spend the rest of my life with him but his dad has kidney issues and is currently living with him on disability. his mom was living with his sister in an apartment under HIS NAME and wasnt paying any type of rent. no job no nothing. she got evicted so now the mom is living with him and the sister has no where to go unless he opens an apartment in his name for the like 5th time. by the time I want to buy a house he wont have any credit and where will his clingy family go. I really enjoy their company dont get me wrong but the man is 25 and is treated like hes 16. he does everything they tell him to do and call him out of his room like hes 4. he complains about being treated this way but still does nothing.
LHCF how to I get him to cut the cord in just some sort of way. I know the family will never change but its effecting him and our relationship. I cant do this little kid ish anymore. I am tired of seeing him so unhappy at his age. he is very talented and has alot of life ahead of him. and not to mention he more than likely is infected with this deadly disease that runs in his family
This just really saddens me because I love him so much.