My very first "real" boyfriend contacted me last week. We where together for about 1 1/2 years about 16 years ago! We broke up on very bad terms.... He was the only relationship that I had that ended so badly. I learned from my mistakes with him-him bullying and ultimately jumping out of the bushes on me and my new man in the end. erplexed
So, I guess he googled me and found out my home address, where I work (he contacted me at work) and everything. He really caught me off guard because he was the last person I would have expected to call me at work.
Anyway, he says he is going to be in town this Wednesday and wants to see me? IRL I have no idea how to handle this! I know I have no desire to be friends as he is married and I dumped him because I really didn't like him. But, I have no idea how to tactfully handle this situation.
I don't know what I'm gonna do
So, I guess he googled me and found out my home address, where I work (he contacted me at work) and everything. He really caught me off guard because he was the last person I would have expected to call me at work.
Anyway, he says he is going to be in town this Wednesday and wants to see me? IRL I have no idea how to handle this! I know I have no desire to be friends as he is married and I dumped him because I really didn't like him. But, I have no idea how to tactfully handle this situation.
I don't know what I'm gonna do