cocoberry10
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Hey Ladies:
I am curious, are there any of you out there that DO NOT date Black men? If so, why?
All these race threads could throw any of us in a tail spin. I've read several threads over my years here at LHCF about all these so-called Black men that have written off dating Black women (I think this is the minority in my personal opinion). However, I haven't seen a thread discussing those that do so in reverse. Me personally, I prefer Black men, but have dated outside the race. I believe there are attractive and unattractive people in each race, so I'm going to date whoever I want. From most of the posts I've read of those in interracial relationships, it seems that most of you are either totally opposed to it, or open to it, but still prefer to date Black men (or at least do). This thread is for those that have written off Black men altogether (or almost)!
For example, a good friend of mine has NEVER dated Black men. She claims it's nothing personal, but that overall, she just doesn't really find most of them physically appealing. She's physically beautiful and can attract any type of man she wants, and doesn't seem to hold a grudge towards Black men, yet she just doesn't go there. And it's not a complexion thing, b/c some of the few Black men she finds attractive vary in color (i.e. Shemar Moore, but also Idris Elba).
I hope this thread can stay civil
I just like asking strange questions (as many of you already know) and this one popped in my head, so I'm asking!
Hey Ladies:
I am curious, are there any of you out there that DO NOT date Black men? If so, why?
All these race threads could throw any of us in a tail spin. I've read several threads over my years here at LHCF about all these so-called Black men that have written off dating Black women (I think this is the minority in my personal opinion). However, I haven't seen a thread discussing those that do so in reverse. Me personally, I prefer Black men, but have dated outside the race. I believe there are attractive and unattractive people in each race, so I'm going to date whoever I want. From most of the posts I've read of those in interracial relationships, it seems that most of you are either totally opposed to it, or open to it, but still prefer to date Black men (or at least do). This thread is for those that have written off Black men altogether (or almost)!
For example, a good friend of mine has NEVER dated Black men. She claims it's nothing personal, but that overall, she just doesn't really find most of them physically appealing. She's physically beautiful and can attract any type of man she wants, and doesn't seem to hold a grudge towards Black men, yet she just doesn't go there. And it's not a complexion thing, b/c some of the few Black men she finds attractive vary in color (i.e. Shemar Moore, but also Idris Elba).
I hope this thread can stay civil
I just like asking strange questions (as many of you already know) and this one popped in my head, so I'm asking!