Guitarhero
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Re: Anonymous Poll-Does your mate get on you about changing/fixing something about yr
You can't make a broad sweeping generalization that African men are more critical so I'll say it this way, Yes! If you're not guilty for one thing, you're guilty for another. But this is usually with somebody who is controlling and on his way out...sorry I am saying that...might not be true in anyone else's case. But it's kinda typical culturally (as broad, diversified racially, culturally, religiously and ethnically as Africa is).
But one gripe I heard...."do not get too excited." I was supposed to lay there and watch paint dry.
Freedom is so lovely...even though I haven't done the deed for a loooong time now. Maybe it's the Madonna complex? I dunno.
You can't make a broad sweeping generalization that African men are more critical so I'll say it this way, Yes! If you're not guilty for one thing, you're guilty for another. But this is usually with somebody who is controlling and on his way out...sorry I am saying that...might not be true in anyone else's case. But it's kinda typical culturally (as broad, diversified racially, culturally, religiously and ethnically as Africa is).
But one gripe I heard...."do not get too excited." I was supposed to lay there and watch paint dry.
Freedom is so lovely...even though I haven't done the deed for a loooong time now. Maybe it's the Madonna complex? I dunno.
He is more sexual/intimate than I am, and he tells me that he wishes things were easier for me sometimes, but he is patient and understands that hormonal BC is a b----. He tells me that I need to learn how to communicate when I am frustrated, because a lot of times what will happen is I will have a look on my face or just get really quiet when something he does/says gets on my nerves, but when he asks what is wrong I ignore him and stay quiet. I am now realizing that a lot of it is me not wanting to start anything or say something offensive, but something ends up getting started anyway when I repeatedly say nothing is wrong. This is NOT the first time I have heard that, so I know I need to fix it. I'm a work in progress.
He was supposed to be my first boyfriend. He always complained about me being too boney this too skinny that. Not having any a** not have t*** So glad I didn't sleep with his fat a**. I don't count him as a first boyfriend. I still feel as if I've never had a real boyfriend. Because I pictured my first real boyfriend to acutally like me for me skinny body, shrunken fro and all. 
