RUBY
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@jerseyhaircare , what Nigerian tribes were these men?
N1 Yoruba. N2 Igbo@jerseyhaircare , what Nigerian tribes were these men?
N1 Yoruba. N2 Igbo
Wow! So for you, one of your soul mate became your life long partner. It's funny how being around a soul mate that is not right for you can feel like being under a spell.
You've never met anyone who made you feel this way ever?Mmm. I would like to meet my soulmater or twinflame....but I think it's too late for me.
Wow, I knew a guy who was in a relationship like your ex and he described it in almost the same way, interesting.I think it has something to do with energy. I feel like my husband and I have good energy-kind of like a pure electricity that creates things. When we are in sync, it's strange-almost like we can feel each other, no matter the distance. One example is I was at the supermarket and was feeling down. I wanted to call dh but he was at the gym and I didn't want to interrupt his work out. As I slowly walked through an aisle, I see him walking towards me. I asked why was he there, he said he no longer felt like working out and decided to come to the supermarket, but wasn't sure why. Coincidences like that keep reminding me we have a good connection-clean, pure, creative and nondestructive.
N1 and I have dark energy-destructive, dangerous, yet seductive. Being with him was like being in a cloud. At first it all looks dreamy, warm and fuzzy-feels just right. Then you're in a fog, cant see straight, only can see each other, forgetting about the outside (responsibilities, relationships, reasons to not be together, etc). Suddenly there is electricity but its the dangerous sort-the type that strikes things, hurts people, and causes fires. Next things are dark, and you realize you're lost, can't find your way out-enveloped and consumed but no path forward and disconnected from the path back. What once seemed perfect feels like a nightmare and it doesn't end until you crawl out, back into the light. But then you look back and see the cloud-it's dreamy warm and fuzzy again. Rinse, wash repeat.
You've never met anyone who made you feel this way ever?
Mmm. I would like to meet my soulmater or twinflame....but I think it's too late for me.
I recently experienced this and WOW was it SOMETHING! I was at a weekend conference. I intentionally attended to hear one of the speakers who lives abroad.
Well at one point as he was on the stage and I was returning to my seat I felt this energy coming from his direction. I looked up before entering my row to sit down and saw him notice me.
About an hour later at intermission I saw him speaking to another person and approached him to tell him how I admired his work. Well as we spoke the energy became SO INTENSE! He asked me do you feel that and I said "Yes what is that!?"
He smiled and said I was his "mirror twin".
I saw him the next day and felt the same energy. I am mesmerized by the experience and wonder why did it happen? What does our interaction signify?
Are you going to see him again?
I will be hopefully doing some business with him. I'm married so so much for that.
I still wonder though why did I experience what I did?
How interesting.
It's very interesting and I believe it wasn't just a mutual attraction either. It was much more intense.
I looked up a few articles about soulmates and the chemistry between them.
He did ask me eventually if I was married. So who knows.
I've been thinking about this for a few days. This isn't really directed at you but to everyone else. Do you all believe its about having the right energy? If so, what can be done to transform your energy so that you have these kinds of experiences? I'm asking for myself as I'd like to experience this again.I've accepted that I probably won't ever experience this. I'm happy but just don't have the right energy to have that type of connection with someone. I do wonder if is it simply due to genetics or if my upbringing has anything to do with it.
Did you feel something similar with your dh?
No I have NEVER experienced this with ANYONE!!
Were you two always incompatible or is this because the two of you have changed over the years? Is compatibility something you value?I won't allow myself to attach just emotionally to someone. They have to have the complete package. DH and I are so incompatible. We just completed the the last room renovation to our old house after 18 years. It's a wonder we didn't divorce. I had put off renovating that area because I knew major fights would emerge.
Very curious what all that could mean. That sounds like quite an experience. The strangest part was not only him feeling it too, but also mentioning you being his 'mirror twin.' I'm about to go look that it because it seems fascinating. Please be sure to update if there are any other encounters.
I will...I am still honestly AMAZED
My soulmate has been in my life for over a decade. We've gone through a few periods of separation but always found our way back to each other. We finally met and it was like coming home...
Did you tell you're husband about it? If so, what did he think?
We have the same value system, that's all. We never ever like the same things, wine, food, houses. We looked at nearly 300 homes before I just bought the present one on my ownWere you two always incompatible or is this because the two of you have changed over the years? Is compatibility something you value?
If you are simply attracted or has mutual infatuation...is that a twin flame? I think you would have to know someone deeper to determine that the person is your soul mate.