Glib Gurl
Well-Known Member
You know, people want to act like it's all roses, but there are a lot of things that go on behind closed doors. Part of the reason people keep things a secret is because they are ashamed, or think that it's strange. But, I'm willing to bet that if more people were honest with others and themselves, they would realize that these types of subtle criticisms are just a part of their relationship.
So yeah, does your mate get on you about changing or fixing something about yourself? (On the flipside, do you get on HIM about something.)
Now I'm not talking about yelling and harsh words -- that is just abuse. I'm just talking about those little side comments . . . often stated in jest, but, in fact, have truth buried within them.
This is an anonymous, multiple choice poll, so even if you don't respond, I hope that you will vote.
*sits back and waits for folks to come up in here and post how their relationship is perfect, how their dh compliments them about everything in every way everyday *
So yeah, does your mate get on you about changing or fixing something about yourself? (On the flipside, do you get on HIM about something.)
Now I'm not talking about yelling and harsh words -- that is just abuse. I'm just talking about those little side comments . . . often stated in jest, but, in fact, have truth buried within them.
This is an anonymous, multiple choice poll, so even if you don't respond, I hope that you will vote.
*sits back and waits for folks to come up in here and post how their relationship is perfect, how their dh compliments them about everything in every way everyday *