Am I Doing Too Much Or No? Update- I Ran Into Interview Bae At An Event Today

[Sally.]

What exactly did you text him?
And don't feel too bad. He's probably just trying to play it cool, trying to see if you'll keep texting without him having to put in too much work. Don't fall for it. Be patient. Make him chase you patient. He'll be texting you again soon.

 

[barbiesocialite]

wait, what happened???

 

[UniquelyDivine]

What exactly did you text him?
And don't feel too bad. He's probably just trying to play it cool, trying to see if you'll keep texting without him having to put in too much work. Don't fall for it. Be patient. Make him chase you patient. He'll be texting you again soon.

I kept it cute & professional, I thanked him again for his time and told him that he gave me some good info to work with then I told him I was expecting a free lifetime membership to his spot from here on out.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

wait, what happened???

Nothing bad, I'm just being an impatient spoiled brat, that's all

 

[barbiesocialite]

Nothing bad, I'm just being an impatient spoiled brat, that's all

have you talked to him since the interview?

 

[UniquelyDivine]

have you talked to him since the interview?

I sent him a cute lil thank you text yesterday and he told me "Anytime!!!"

 

[silverbuttons]

Well, you did your job. Start working on a new target. Lol.

 

[hopeful]

Well, you did your job. Start working on a new target. Lol.

Right. Operation multiple baes in rotation.

 

[tilati]

Hmmm ok ladies, a strapless dress won't work with my hijab... do I have to pay myself to alter the dress??? That would be kinda lower echelon but I digress...

 

[Froreal3]

I sent him a cute lil thank you text yesterday and he told me "Anytime!!!"

Your text wasn't bad. It was cute with the little joke about lifetime membership. If he doesn't know you like him, he's dumb. Don't be a fiend for this one even though you really really like him. Chill and focus on honing your Spartan skills with the next one. Just flirt, have them drooling, being thirsty, and have fun.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

Well, you did your job. Start working on a new target. Lol.

Right. Operation multiple baes in rotation.

Y'all are right I almost slipped on my pimping for a second.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

Your text wasn't bad. It was cute with the little joke about lifetime membership. If he doesn't know you like him, he's dumb. Don't be a fiend for this one even though you really really like him. Chill and focus on honing your Spartan skills with the next one. Just flirt, have them drooling, being thirsty, and have fun.

Yea I've done my part & I'm not going to press the issue any further, I see what G.L Lambert means about crushes though, they're annoying

I think I'm going to run through the book again, I need it all to really stick 100%.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

Hmmm ok ladies, a strapless dress won't work with my hijab... do I have to pay myself to alter the dress??? That would be kinda lower echelon but I digress...

We got you girl!

 

[caribeandiva]

Hmmm ok ladies, a strapless dress won't work with my hijab... do I have to pay myself to alter the dress??? That would be kinda lower echelon but I digress...

Nvm.. I get it now.

 

[hopeful]

Hmmm ok ladies, a strapless dress won't work with my hijab... do I have to pay myself to alter the dress??? That would be kinda lower echelon but I digress...

We can check with @Lucie but perhaps we can make an exception and you can wear a pink shawl?


And you can special order a pink hijab if you need to.

 

[hopeful]

Yea I've done my part & I'm not going to press the issue any further, I see what G.L Lambert means about crushes though, they're annoying

I think I'm going to run through the book again, I need it all to really stick 100%.

Crushes put you at a disadvantage because the person has been given a status they have yet to earn. Remember, you really only "think" you like him. You don't know him from Adam yet. He could be pervert or a cheater or dating someone or just plain weird. It takes time to know if a man is really worth our time. So you can think he is cute and successful and could possibly be a catch, but you just don't know yet. I think having a crush on a movie star or something is a safer bet. But with someone you can actually meet in person it might cloud your judgement and also put him in the position to be the pursued, the prize.

 

[tilati]

We can check with @Lucie but perhaps we can make an exception and you can wear a pink shawl?
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And you can special order a pink hijab if you need to.

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Ha that's why I love lhcf you came through with pics and all lol.
Thanks

 

[Naveah2050]

Nothing bad, I'm just being an impatient spoiled brat, that's all

It's ok sis, we got you. Time for us to find a distraction bae... you always have to date someone else to take the edge off the main one...who else you got on your hit list? Now we have a method that works we just need a new target...

 

[sgold04]

Crushes put you at a disadvantage because the person has been given a status they have yet to earn. Remember, you really only "think" you like him. You don't know him from Adam yet. He could be pervert or a cheater or dating someone or just plain weird. It takes time to know if a man is really worth our time. So you can think he is cute and successful and could possibly be a catch, but you just don't know yet. I think having a crush on a movie star or something is a safer bet. But with someone you can actually meet in person it might cloud your judgement and also put him in the position to be the pursued, the prize.

Always coming with the fiyah!! I needed this reminder, I have a crush in another city who has too much of a hold on my mind right now.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

Crushes put you at a disadvantage because the person has been given a status they have yet to earn. Remember, you really only "think" you like him. You don't know him from Adam yet. He could be pervert or a cheater or dating someone or just plain weird. It takes time to know if a man is really worth our time. So you can think he is cute and successful and could possibly be a catch, but you just don't know yet. I think having a crush on a movie star or something is a safer bet. But with someone you can actually meet in person it might cloud your judgement and also put him in the position to be the pursued, the prize.

Exactly, I realized I had this whole idea of him built up in my head & he could be the total opposite of that. This is a great reality check.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

It's ok sis, we got you. Time for us to find a distraction bae... you always have to date someone else to take the edge off the main one...who else you got on your hit list? Now we have a method that works we just need a new target...

I swear I love y'all I'm going to start researching and finding a new mark.

 

[hopeful]

Yes! Let's keep going. Building your rotation and planning the wedding .

 

[giigii613]

Y'all got me up all hours of the night reading through this entire thread. I'm like please entrepreneur bae call @UniquelyDivine if you don't you losing a good one. I'm all involved like I'm watching a t.v show. But on the real it's going to start bothering him when he doesn't hear from you again and he is going to hit you up. I'd give it a few weeks entertain yourself with your other potentials he will fall into place.

 

[GetHappy2014]

Crushes put you at a disadvantage because the person has been given a status they have yet to earn. Remember, you really only "think" you like him. You don't know him from Adam yet. He could be pervert or a cheater or dating someone or just plain weird. It takes time to know if a man is really worth our time. So you can think he is cute and successful and could possibly be a catch, but you just don't know yet. I think having a crush on a movie star or something is a safer bet. But with someone you can actually meet in person it might cloud your judgement and also put him in the position to be the pursued, the prize.

You are spot on with this one. After my last adult crush (absolute rarity), I swore I'd never put myself through that again. I avoid that ish like the plague. Sorry to be a Debbie Downer to the 'hopeless romantics' in this thread. I just like to feel in control... 'tis all.

A distraction is a necessity.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

Y'all got me up all hours of the night reading through this entire thread. I'm like please entrepreneur bae call @UniquelyDivine if you don't you losing a good one. I'm all involved like I'm watching a t.v show. But on the real it's going to start bothering him when he doesn't hear from you again and he is going to hit you up. I'd give it a few weeks entertain yourself with your other potentials he will fall into place.

If he's smart he will but y'all are so right. A distraction is needed. I'm thinking I'll have another juicy update in a few weeks though

You are spot on with this one. After my last adult crush (absolute rarity), I swore I'd never put myself through that again. I avoid that *** like the plague. Sorry to be a Debbie Downer to the 'hopeless romantics' in this thread. I just like to feel in control... 'tis all.

A distraction is a necessity.

I haven't had a crush on a fool since I was a natural blond, they really do throw you off but it's kind of fun too but only if you give yourself reality checks ever so often.

 

[biznesswmn]

I agree. Let him pursue
If he comes around, keep it business related at first and see where he takes it

 

[afrofaithful]

Ooooo! This was fun to read even though I didn't participate. I hope you have luck with this guy! When's that other marketing event?

Y'all got me wanting to read this book and I never read those types of books. After my debacle with booty call man who never wanted my booty that I had a completely irrational adult crush on I need a new perspective .

He has two, which should I start with?

 

[caribeandiva]

Ooooo! This was fun to read even though I didn't participate. I hope you have luck with this guy! When's that other marketing event?

Y'all got me wanting to read this book and I never read those types of books. After my debacle with booty call man who never wanted my booty that I had a completely irrational adult crush on I need a new perspective .

He has two, which should I start with?

Men don't love women like you

 

[UniquelyDivine]

Ooooo! This was fun to read even though I didn't participate. I hope you have luck with this guy! When's that other marketing event?

Y'all got me wanting to read this book and I never read those types of books. After my debacle with booty call man who never wanted my booty that I had a completely irrational adult crush on I need a new perspective .

He has two, which should I start with?

I thought I was over having crushes on folks but sometimes you just can't help it!

I would definitely start with Men don't love women like you, then move on to Ho tactics.

The next event is in 3 weeks

 

[claudzie]

I thought I was over having crushes on folks but sometimes you just can't help it!

I would definitely start with Men don't love women like you, then move on to Ho tactics.

The next event is in 3 weeks

After googling MDLWLU I came across another book by the same author that is more what I need. It is Awaken the Spartan Within by G. L Lambert. I feel I am too nice sometimes.