BeautifulFlower
Well-Known Member
Ok. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I know he loves me too but I need some advice here. We are in a long distance relationship. He is soooo adament about me informing him of my whereabouts. If he doesnt know where I am and havent heard from me in a few hours, he starts calling and texting. When I do call back, I get a lecture on how I need to let him know because he gets worried and he cares and on and on.
Like today I was supposed to work from hom but I had to go into the office. I was on the move from 11a to 1p. I didnt call or text him in this time nor did I look at my phone. Not that I didnt think of him but I didnt think to call. I was busy and on the move.
Its stressful because I do my best. I am not accustomed to HAVING to let anybody know where I am at all time. I understand he loves me and cares but its driving me nuts. I am a very independent person and I have conditioned from previous relationships to not need much attention or demand alot. This level of attentiveness is new to me and I am not sure I like it too much.
I told him its ok if he doesnt know where I am for a couple hours or that I dont call him for longer than that. I feel like he's my dad or something. Its really getting to me.
Am I being misunderstanding?
Like today I was supposed to work from hom but I had to go into the office. I was on the move from 11a to 1p. I didnt call or text him in this time nor did I look at my phone. Not that I didnt think of him but I didnt think to call. I was busy and on the move.
Its stressful because I do my best. I am not accustomed to HAVING to let anybody know where I am at all time. I understand he loves me and cares but its driving me nuts. I am a very independent person and I have conditioned from previous relationships to not need much attention or demand alot. This level of attentiveness is new to me and I am not sure I like it too much.
I told him its ok if he doesnt know where I am for a couple hours or that I dont call him for longer than that. I feel like he's my dad or something. Its really getting to me.
Am I being misunderstanding?