Advice: Potential romance with an older guy

[ForestRose]

girlonfire nice story. I hope things work out for you. When I read older man I assumed you meant OLDER older. Not just a few years. 3 - 5 years is really quite small considering that you are likely to be on the same maturity level. We are the same age and I'm not gonna deny that I have a thing for men a lot older then that lol...

I'd say for hobbies try and do one that involves people. Like volunteering and groups. I always see it as a great way to grow a circle. With me I'm trying to do that. I have a lot of artsy hobbies but sadly they don't always allow for socialisation. I think doing the right hobbies and going to the right places will allow you to meet the right men.

 

[girlonfire]

This is kinda silly but I'm planning on getting all dolled up on that day. I'm getting my hair cut, makeup done (nothing crazy, I have a coupon lol) I'll try and see if I can find a dress or maybe just a flowy top, sandals, kinda romantic look.
I've been gone for the same time it takes to make a baby. What if he has a baby!? I'm so paranoid even to this day about all the possibilities.
Then there's the issie of how I'm going to get passed that awkward "he congregation, guess who's back, backslider here!"