Blessed&higlyflavoured
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I'm ready to be booed up now.
Me tooI'm ready to be booed up now.
Have you ever felt sorry for yourself?
As if you were standing outside of yourself looking in, and feeling sad and all you had to endure or go threw? How do you change those lenses to gratitude and growth? Sometimes I feel really sorry for myself....
I have- after my ex husband cheated and I was in limbo waiting to see what the next move was going to be- I felt really sorry for myself.... pity party. That carried on for a bit due to the overwhelming shock of my family being broken apart and us navigating the divorce. I didn't really achieve gratitude and growth until that situation was finished. I took a lot of time for self reflection and got into therapy and one day I just said that isn't my focus anymore- and I move forward. It was hard as hell. There was a lot of sadness and anger in my heart. But when I said it was enough, it was enough. Sending you big hugs and feel better.Have you ever felt sorry for yourself?
As if you were standing outside of yourself looking in, and feeling sad and all you had to endure or go threw? How do you change those lenses to gratitude and growth? Sometimes I feel really sorry for myself....
I swear....Beyoncé is gonna ruin my life with Lemonade. I'm listening to "Hold Up" feeling all angry and emotional, like my man cheated on me. There was this really beautiful man on the train. He was staring and smiling. I was so upset by "Hold Up," I gave him a dirty look and went to sit in a corner to think about my feelings. It was especially at the part "Being jealous or crazy. Getting walked all over lately. " I felt just like Beyoncé. I wanted to get a bat and start swinging.
I totally get that! When my song rotation gets to Hurt Yourself I skip it. It's not how I feel or want to feel in my current situation. We have to guard our minds.
My level of forgiveness is about the same in a relationship versus a marriage. I give it my all and when I am done, I don't look back.Are you more forgiving when you're married? Is there more of a reason to salvage a marriage? Let's assume there aren't any children. For those who believe marriage is forever, would you feel guilty for walking away? What about that forever vow?
I used to be different. If you would have asked me 5 years ago- my answer would have been more forgiving in marriage. I use to cut men off if they breathed wrong so I was going to give my "husband" more of an opportunity.I was thinkin about you when I wrote it
IDK People seem to take more BS in marriage and say it's for the kids...but what about when there is no kids?
Btw- all this cuz I saw a post someone put on IG about they don't believe in Divorce.