movingforward13
I do what I want...
I don't trust him now- and honestly- I am looking at it from a future point of view. I want to get married, buy a house and have one more child maybe. If he is paying child support for two kids... then how can he "contribute" to the dream. If he had told me from the beginning - then I could have made the choice. I can't be upset about what he did back then but I think it is real horrible to get my heart involved and then I find all this out- he didn't even tell me. So I am second guessing everything. I just don't trust him now.@movingforward13
Is it this lie or do you have a weird gut feeling about him and his intentions? If it's the latter and if you pray, with a pure heart, ask God to show you what you need to know. If there's nothing, great, if there is, brace yourself and have you relaxation technique and get away lined up. That gut feeling is usually the holy spirit.
The weird thing is my guy friends are telling me to hear him out- they are sympathizing more with him than me. They feel like he is a good guy - or maybe they are subconsciously projecting. I just don't know if I want to be involved in this. Know what I mean?
I am starting to think that he probably thought this was going to be a hit and run and so he wasn't going to say anything. But then he saw something here and couldn't back track.