Briabiggles
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Why did this boy tell me we're gonna watch March madness all freaking weekend?! Yeah right! You go ahead, Mr! You'll be watching ALONE!
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I have not brought up the other items because I was being nosey, but what do you ladies think? He also has old pics on his laptop from various events/trips that I think should be deleted. Should I not care if he still has these items in his home? Am I being jealous and unreasonable?
Had a great weekend with SO...He is doing some home improvements so I am helping him out (clearing out space, touch up painting, etc.) and I came across some things from his previous relationships, (old party favors from his ex's bday; pictures; "coloring" activity games which were stored away but I found them ) He only knows that I saw the souvenir party glasses. He says that he has not cleaned out his cabinets in years and that he would dispose of the glasses. I have not brought up the other items because I was being nosey, but what do you ladies think? He also has old pics on his laptop from various events/trips that I think should be deleted. Should I not care if he still has these items in his home? Am I being jealous and unreasonable?
If it bothers you address it. The feeling won't go away right? If you believe they should be deleted state so. But would you want the same asked of you? What is the source of this request? Can you compromise and have him at least store them away on a flash drive or something like it? We've discussed similar topics here before where folks expresses that they would never destroy precious memories from their past. Be true to yourself and be fair. Simple....or easier said than done lol
MRJ1972, I wouldn't worry about it. I have pictures of my ex-DH that I cherish. Not because I want him back but because of the love and goodness we shared in dating and in our marriage. Now if he had them as a screen saver, or the file was recently named, "My ONLY Love" or something like that I wouldn't worry. Good luck!
I would not worry. His actions would speak more than any photo or favor in his closet. I also would not bring it up because snooping is not going to go over well with him, regardless of what you found. I would make mental notes of what you saw and if the ummmm collection of stuff increases or otherwise changes. Men are not good about covering up their tracks entirely so if he were doing something wrong, you'd be able to tell from his collection. Until then.....mums the word.
Sooooo, are men supposed to love/like you more than you love/like them? I'm giving the guy I'm dating JUST ENOUGH to keep him interested and that little bit is like gold to him. It's very interesting.
Relationships work out better when the guy has stronger feelings because then the effort output is equal.