2014 What's Happening in Our Relationships?

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Hey ladies. SO had us on a information fast. That made us spend more time together. We are doing good :yep:.

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Vegas with my SO last week was great. It was our first vacation away together.

I get easily overwhelmed by crowds and, of course, Vegas is crowds EVERYWHERE! SO could tell when I was getting stressed and massaged my hand when we were walking. I tried to brush off how claustrophobic I was feeling when we were in the casino's for too long but he looked at me and said "Baby, I know you! I know how you're feeling right now. Just relax and ignore the people. Enjoy how beautiful everything is....here...have a drink!" :lol:

My work schedule changed after vacation. I no longer have a week off at a time to spend with him. Now, we only get to see each other on weekends until summer when he's on summer break (teacher). *sigh* I'm happy to be off night shift bc I get to have a normal life outside of work but it does suck not seeing him as much. Things could be worse. We could be a plane ride apart but it's only 1.5 hours.

I'm glad to know that he loves me and tells me all the time. We're lucky in so many ways. :yep:
 
SO has been very supportive over the last few days, especially considering the silliness on my part. I'll be nice and cook him his favorite meal...bland spaghetti.
 
So he comes over and I'm cooking dinner then he measures my wrist with his hand...I hope he's trying to figure out what size bracelet or watch to get me lol...freaking weirdo. I like to be surprised so after he wouldn't tell me why hedid that I let it go but I'm still wondering.
 
SO is going out of town for his birthday and will be gone for a week. Should I give him his bday presents/dinner before he goes or when he returns? I am thinking before-although it will be 6 days before the bday.
 
I'm upset with him. Did he really just give me the....oh I would much rather lay up doing nothing than working seven days a week. I hope he's not trying to insinuate that I don't do anything. I had a really bad day and I'm not gonna take it out on him. But we will have a sit down very soon.......
 
<3 my bf was so amazing last night. We went out with friends for my bday dinner. Towards the end of dinner my toothache kicked it up 100notches. BF drove me hm and I brushed my teeth and immediately got in bed. I took a vidacin (felt like i tool baby aspirin) and tossed and turned on the verge of tears for about an hr. I grabbed my phone and googled 24 hr dentist. I got up and went to the couch and laid on top of him and started crying, my pain was so bad. He rubbed my back then had me lay down and massaged my head an back to try to distract me from my pain. I called the 24 hr dentist and made an appointment. Bf drove me and stayed and drove me back. We got back hm at about 3:30 am then he drove an hr back to his place cause he had a class at 9:30am. I'm so great full and thankful. He was awesome. My dad called me to check on me and I told him "daddy BF was awesome last night he really pulled through and took care of me..." My dad was very thankful because one of my issues with ex is that when I really needed then it seemed like they weren't there for me.
 
Whenever he starts talking about the future (vaca plans, etc) I always act coy and say "Oh really? We're going to be together that long? :look:?" After I said that last night, he come over to me and says "Don't be silly. You know we're going to get married. I can't imagine life without you in it." That's the first time he's said 100% that he wants to marry me. Obviously, it wasn't a proposal but it makes me feel good to know he feels this way. No worries. We're good and on the right track. :yep: Now, I hope he hurries up and puts a ring on it!!! :lol:
 
LovelyLouboutin said:
<3 my bf was so amazing last night. We went out with friends for my bday dinner. Towards the end of dinner my toothache kicked it up 100notches. BF drove me hm and I brushed my teeth and immediately got in bed. I took a vidacin (felt like i tool baby aspirin) and tossed and turned on the verge of tears for about an hr. I grabbed my phone and googled 24 hr dentist. I got up and went to the couch and laid on top of him and started crying, my pain was so bad. He rubbed my back then had me lay down and massaged my head an back to try to distract me from my pain. I called the 24 hr dentist and made an appointment. Bf drove me and stayed and drove me back. We got back hm at about 3:30 am then he drove an hr back to his place cause he had a class at 9:30am. I'm so great full and thankful. He was awesome. My dad called me to check on me and I told him "daddy BF was awesome last night he really pulled through and took care of me..." My dad was very thankful because one of my issues with ex is that when I really needed then it seemed like they weren't there for me.
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I hope you are feeling better.
 
It's been 4 months since I made the big move. I miss the south but this was worth it. My SO goes out of his way to make me feel comfortable and I get my way all the time lol. But he always keep me grounded with the it's we not I anymore. I'm so use to being by myself and having to handle everything myself. He told me that he didn't know why I was worried about moving up here, he was going to take care of me. He is right. But I miss the south a lot, I have to visit during the summer.

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[USER=12532]crlsweetie912[/USER];19898377 said:
I hope you are feeling better.
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I am. Thanks! I'm still in pain but the amoxicillin helped SO much. Tomorrow ill have the infected wisdom tooth pulled (they are going to try to do the whole side...but they are squeezing me in so they might not be able to do it).

Next week I do back for another procedure. The dentist said I could do it today. But with my nerves I couldn't do it today then roll into a tooth extraction. Mannn I'd be so jumpy he wouldn't be able to do the work.

I'm gonna beg my boss too let me work from hm the rest of the week.

At a later date I still have to schedule to have the rest of my wisdom teeth pulled. But I can plan better like around a holiday for those. That was we both don't have to miss much work.
 
crlsweetie912 said:
I'm upset with him. Did he really just give me the....oh I would much rather lay up doing nothing than working seven days a week. I hope he's not trying to insinuate that I don't do anything. I had a really bad day and I'm not gonna take it out on him. But we will have a sit down very soon.......
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That's good. Talk to him with a clear head...give him some act right! A don't get it twisted talk! Lol
 
Fine 4s said:
Loving these happy lovie dovie posts :)
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Sorry, but I'm about to end it. :lol:

I think things are DEAD with ole boy. I just have not been feeling him. I am bored as hell with our convo and I don't want him to touch me (bad sign), but I figured I'd let him keep taking me out. He enjoys my company, and I enjoy the meals. But after last night, I'm not so sure.

My uncle passed away yesterday from pancreatic cancer. I'm ok, just worried about my aunt/his wife. He was texting me about his job, and I let him know that I was with my family since my uncle had just passed. He expressed his condolences. Around 10 PM, when I'm still with my family, he asks if I would like to come over to his house. Sir, I JUST told you that my uncle died, and I was grieving with family. Why would I want to go to your house during "booty call" hours?

He knows I work early mornings (he works all kinds of crazy schedules), so I go to bed around 9:30-10. He's asked me a few times if I wanted to "chill" late at night on work nights. Just so inconsiderate. And I have not given this cream puff any clue that I'd want to be intimate with him. SMH.
 
BGT, sorry for your loss. (((HUGS))) I really hope you, your aunt and your family receive all of the love and support you all need. XO
 
I'm so thankful for my love . I came home from work and he must have seen me parking the car on the street. He came outside and open my door, gave me a kiss and carried my bags from work in. He already had leftovers heating up. I was tired and hungry so I appreciated that.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
tinkat said:
I'm so thankful for my love . I came home from work and he must have seen me parking the car on the street. He came outside and open my door, gave me a kiss and carried my bags from work in. He already had leftovers heating up. I was tired and hungry so I appreciated that. Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
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I love your relationship. So sweet!

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