2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

Lucie said:
He makes me feel beautiful.

I realize that despite his stubborn ways, he is not going anywhere. He truly does love me as I am. I also realize that I judge him based on what I am used to and that was wrong of me. He has proven so many things to me already.
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Lucie

I'm smiling for you.
 
This fool must think I am loony....did you really just call me after 7 mf'ing days and just say Hey what's up like nothing?
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Ahhhh snap Lub is in da air!!!!

Allandra I'm happy for your good news. InchHighPrivateEye I sure wish you could have attended that wedding. That would have been so romantic for ya'll but nonetheless congrats on following your heart/acting. Fine 4s chile I'd ask my dang self. LOL I text folks all hours of the night knowing dang well they are asleep and won't get the message til the next morning.

I found a good idea/outing to get some driving relief but if I do it too often my plot will be obvious. LOL I am going to drive the Bug since its much more comfy than the Jeep.
 
Thanks @firecracker! I know!! I'm soooooooooooooooooooo upset about the wedding. I've been daydreaming about it for months :ohwell: After I auditioned for the play and found out it would a conflict I still thought maybe I could go if it was an afternoon wedding and leave the reception early but they happen at the same time. I'm.so.upset.

Allandra, yay!
 
sigh ..long distance relationships suck..especially when they are in another country. the yearning,missing.
calls, video skype. letters help somewhat
but it will be all the more sweeter when he finally comes home next year. my baby though :love:
 
Lucie said:
@misseyblue, more deets please! :grin:
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awww okay... well we've been dating since June. Everything has been flowing very well. Our only issue is time...our schedules ALWAYS clash so we try to make it work the best we can in terms of spending time together. The one thing that has remained cosistent has been our daily communication. No arguments yet which is another plus! He drives me crazy at times but that's expected.

We had a heart to heart last week as he is going through somethings and he opened up in detail. Nothing bad...just life stuff. Then on Tuesday morning we were chatting on Tango.... that's when the conversation occured. He said he truly appreciated me and then the convo got deeper about us being a couple.

I will say the hardest factor for me has been adjusting to how much we see each other. But it was never a deal breaker. We both knew that would be a factor going in.
 
He still acts as if we're together. I hope he knows that I meant what I said. :ohwell:

And yes, I'm going to have to be more stringent with my "no fathers" rule. That adds too many complications to the relationship.
 
Another wedding to attend in a month...this will be the third this year. Plus 3 of my friends are preggers. I have to keep reminding myself that it's not my time....sucks though sometimes

I went out with my girls last week and ran into someone I used to date last year. I really liked this guy, but he wasn't into me. He kept running into me throughout the night talking, hugging and asking me to dance, but he also flirted with other women. Overall I had a great night and didn't let it bother me....I came out to have a good time and I did!

I'm enjoying spending time with my friends! I realize that I'm in a committed relationship with them and just like I would with a SO/DH/ etc. I need to give them time as well and attention. A good friendship is hard work, but the benefits are more than worth it.
 
sylver2 said:
sigh ..long distance relationships suck..especially when they are in another country. the yearning,missing.
calls, video skype. letters help somewhat
but it will be all the more sweeter when he finally comes home next year. my baby though :love:
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Long distance can be hard but so worth it. You really appreciate the small things.
 
My brother moved in with his gf and I hope he was ready. Thats my baby brother and I always feel responsible for him a bit
 
Mortons said:
My brother moved in with his gf and I hope he was ready. Thats my baby brother and I always feel responsible for him a bit
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I had the same feeling when my brother did this. He went from mom's house to a built in family (his gf has a daughter). But it sounds like things are going well so far.
 
Today I felt a little sad and alone. I don't know why; I got dressed and put on a little makeup and had a good time with Mom but *sigh*.
 
Today in the weekly class I go to, this new boy came in. We were on the floor sitting in a circle and I was talking a girl on my right and next thing I know the door opens and this older lady comes in and behind him is this boy. I didnt get butterflies or anything but I kind of felt warm on the inside. He is tall, has locks like I do, has big blk square glasses like I do and apparently is spiritual like I am. Only thing is I can't tell how old he is at all. All he shared is that hes a musician. He has tattoos so im guessing hes over 18. First I thought he was younger and the woman he came with was his mother, but later it was revealed that it wasn't. They were friends and had met at a new age store. So that told me he was a little bit older. Anyway, hopefully he comes back next week.

Oh and I was grabbing my bag at the end of the class and heard someone ask, "so how long have you been on this spiritual journey?" I look up and its him! And hes talking to ME! Yay! I answer him and try to make conversation but it was a bit awkward, so I waited for an opening and left :perplexed wonder why he came up to speak to me if he didnt have anything to say? Weird...
 
runwaydream, he probably worked up the courage to talk to you and fizzled out, LOL! Aww........ keep us updated. If you see him again, try to be conversational too. Good luck!
 
I am sooo tired this morning, but it's a "good tired." :lick: SO decided around 1:00 this morning that he wanted to leave his house and his bed and come to my house and get in my bed. I was having THE BEST sleep before he called ...but of course I couldn't resist him. So now he's at home sleeping and I'm at work tired. :look:
 
This is a cross between relationship and career thoughts. One of the guys I used to date, the Inventor, is a freaking genius, and it is so intimidating.
We were talking last week, and he told me that he was bringing to the US this teenager from his home country to expose him to engineering opportunities here. He said he was in the process of "curating" an experience for him here. He's talking a week off from his academic work and taking the kid around to conferences and opportunities for exposure. Right now they are in New York and the child is one of a few children participating in a creativity competition with top people.
The Inventor is always doing stuff like this, and it was the first time in my dating experience that I felt downright intimidated by the guy's success. Maybe because in a way I envied him... His connections, his drive and fearlessness, the way in which people THROW money at him to help him accomplish his goals, and his confidence in charting out a place for himself in this world.

I'm JUST beginning to develop that confidence myself, and the process is scary and exciting. I'm beginning to look to him for inspiration and less with envy:ohwell::yep: Anyway, I hope someday I can be more like him. Hmmm I wonder if he will mentor me:think::lol:
 
Lucie said:
runwaydream, he probably worked up the courage to talk to you and fizzled out, LOL! Aww........ keep us updated. If you see him again, try to be conversational too. Good luck!
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Yeah, I wonder if maybe that was it. I did try to carry on the conversation. But it seems like he got engrossed in the dog and used that as a distraction. It was weird. I asked him about his journey and he just seemed kind of awkward and hard to draw out. I made some comment about how animals must really love him, since the cat came up to him earlier and he started talking about how ducks by his house follow him all the time. I didnt know what to say after that so I was glad that I was in someone's way so I apologized to them and left.
That was an awkward exchange. It makes me think that maybe he IS young after all
 
The optimism I had for our date this weekend is turning to pessimism. If he doesn't call by tomorrow morning, I don't want to hear from him ever again. I hate that I can't get the one I really want and might actually be the one for me, but all these other losers I have no interest in knocking at the door. :sad:
 
Well hes not going permanently but a few things have a occurred that has left me uninterested in continuing dating him. Nice guy and was good for the moment just not quite right for me.
 
bf & i are having our weekly "work day". he came in like "i have so much studying to do!"

and now he's passed out.

okay

:lol: we are hanging with my co-coach for cheer tomorrow after the game. i'm excited b/c i adore them both. he met my other fav person out here and i'm like :grin: everyone gets along! this is wonderful!
 
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