2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

sylver2 said:
sigh ..long distance relationships suck..especially when they are in another country. the yearning,missing.
calls, video skype. letters help somewhat
but it will be all the more sweeter when he finally comes home next year. my baby though :love:
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in a month my relationship will be long distance and im not looking forward to it. i already know im going to be a wreck:cry:
 
Bleh. Cuffing season. A dude I rejected back in, like, February or March has resurfaced. What the heck for?? He sent periodic messages up until May or so, none of which I responded to. The guy met me once and had the audacity to theorize about my personality, how I'm picky and all this BS. No sir, no thanks. Was never interested and still am not.
 
Well I put up a profile on match, had a lot of people wink and try to talk to me, but no one who interested me. So I decided to search a little myself, found a guy who I was intrigued by based on his profile, and his pictures sealed the deal. We started talking about a month ago and have been on 4 dates. All the dates have been great! We really have a STRONG connection on various levels and its a little scary, because I feel like it is so fast. We have another date tomorrow and I am really excited!
 
sylver2 said:
sigh ..long distance relationships suck..especially when they are in another country. the yearning,missing.
calls, video skype. letters help somewhat
but it will be all the more sweeter when he finally comes home next year. my baby though :love:
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:yep::yep::yep:

Along those lines, SO is coming to see me next month!! :yay::yay: And then he should be here permanently by November or December at the latest. Lord, it's been a long road! But it's almost over. :yep:
 
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Cuffing season... it just clicked. I was on POF with this dude and SO (and a few more :look:) at the same time. He just kind of cut me off... last week about 11p he text me as if I was supposed to be interested. I took a minute to figure out who he was. My last text to him was "Oh, I remember you" then nothing. He kept texting for the next hour or so before he got the message.

Also, another dude from my past (who doesn't know I have an SO) had his mother tell my mother he said hi... at church. :perplexed:

Boys are dumb
 
We're supposed to go to a festival tonight but it's raining. I still wanna go. There's going to be so much food! I'm sure he rather work than stand out in the rain while I stuff my face with spanokopita. Oh well, he's going if I'm going.
 
VeryBecoming

Don't you love the "if I'm going he's going"?
We go almost everywhere together. The only places I might not go are last minute invites buy he doesn't or I should say can't stay without me anywhere too long I noticed
 
Gemini350z said:
Well I put up a profile on match, had a lot of people wink and try to talk to me, but no one who interested me. So I decided to search a little myself, found a guy who I was intrigued by based on his profile, and his pictures sealed the deal. We started talking about a month ago and have been on 4 dates. All the dates have been great! We really have a STRONG connection on various levels and its a little scary, because I feel like it is so fast. We have another date tomorrow and I am really excited!
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Gemini350z
I often thought about you but couldn't remember your name! The last post was about your last relationship. Did y'all ever talk?
So glad you're enjoying the dating world..
 
I miss my baby. He has been working, I have been working almost 7 days straight. We haven't been able to talk forreal all week. Long distance is no bueno at times.
 
He is kinda upset I refuse to attend a serial cheater friend of my family wedding anniversary gathering. I told him to go alone because he is only amped up about it because they are going to have sports on 4 tv's in the man cave all day. LOL I tried my best to explain. I told him I took him off my newsfeed on F/B because I cannot stand the phoniness not to mention I've known his wife since elementary and b4 him. He said but you love him like a brother. I said I put up with his bs for my favorite boy cousins. Their ole butts has a three year old and he has been cheating from day one aka 25 years of marriage. I ended that conversation with I feel sorry for her coochie cuz I know he doesn't use protection and he doesn't lie about being married to the other women so whatever. He gave me the blank face and said we are going!!!! I guess Football and awesome Gumbo don went to his head. YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS OF ME!!! but bring me a bowl of Gumbo back please. I just had to type that dumb convo out. LOL
 
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Fine 4s said:
Don't you love the "if I'm going he's going"?
We go almost everywhere together. The only places I might not go are last minute invites buy he doesn't or I should say can't stay without me anywhere too long I noticed
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It's nice! We used to go everywhere together but I'm trying to stop that....unless it's something I really want to do. He's like hey let's go to home depot, lets go get me a hair cut. I don't wanna do all that boring stuff :lol:
 
He is acting like a brat because I am taking time for ME today. No kid today, no him today. Told him I would see him tomorrow morning. He is mad. Oh effin well. You wanna be around all the time? Put a ring on it. And even then I'm still going to have me time.
 
Spending time with SO all day today. My son is with his dad this weekend so its just me and SO. About to eat ribs, drink beer and watch The Book of Eli starring Denzel Washington. He bought much needed new tires for my car! This came just in time because I have to drive down south tomorrow to help my sisters with my mom who has been in the hospital for three weeks now. :-(
 
I have a week off from work (it's coming to an end now but anyway), so yesterday I decided to head to my workplace with my sisters (I work in a furniture store) and possibly see my cute co-worker. So we're walking in the store and I'm looking for him and my sister points to two very unattractive men (co-workers:look:) to me asking if it's one of them, I look at her and go: "What part of S (the co-worker I have an eye for) is cute did you not understand?" She's all like *shrug*. :rolleyes:
 
deltadreamland said:
Spending time with SO all day today. My son is with his dad this weekend so its just me and SO. About to eat ribs, drink beer and watch The Book of Eli starring Denzel Washington. He bought much needed new tires for my car! This came just in time because I have to drive down south tomorrow to help my sisters with my mom who has been in the hospital for three weeks now. :-(
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I hope mom is ok.
 
So my recent ex SO and I are getting together on Monday to chat and get some closure. We really want to stay friends. :yep: Of course, I'm hoping he changes his mind and wants to be together. Sigh. I love him so much.

Sent from my iPhone. Excuse the typos!
 
ivyness said:
Didn't @mwedzi get married yesterday? if so, congratulations!!!!
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Last week Friday (9 days ago) :yep: Thank you! I'm on the honeymoon right now, lol, logged onto LHCF. DH listens to his stuff periodically throughout the day, too (turns out we don't really talk or stare blisfully at each other for 16 hours a day), so I don't feel bad.
 
Mortons said:
I hope mom is ok.
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Thanks Mortons. She is not ok. Last time I saw her in July, she could walk and hear just fine. She had a fall a few weeks ago; now she cannot walk and can barely hear. They are putting her in rehab tomorrow. My two sisters have been there the whole time helping because they live closer than me. So now I need to go. I need to see what's going on with my mom for myself and help my sisters.
 
Briabiggles said:
So my recent ex SO and I are getting together on Monday to chat and get some closure. We really want to stay friends. :yep: Of course, I'm hoping he changes his mind and wants to be together. Sigh. I love him so much.

Sent from my iPhone. Excuse the typos!
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Hugs to you. Did he give a reason for breaking up with you?
 
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