2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

^How ironic! I was just coming to post about tires. SO just called me at work to tell me he's out tire shopping for me now. While driving my car this weekend, he realized that I needed to get all 4 replaced. He told me not to worry and said that he'd take care of it all. Love!
 
Is this Thirst Week of Cuffing Season? The first guy I've ever kissed wants to know if he can have a "chance". I have always wondered if his coloring was as good as his kissing. Anyhoo, I'm having a good time getting my Nola Darling swag (without the sex) on.
 
deltadreamland said:
^How ironic! I was just coming to post about tires. SO just called me at work to tell me he's out tire shopping for me now. While driving my car this weekend, he realized that I needed to get all 4 replaced. He told me not to worry and said that he'd take care of it all. Love!
Click to expand...

ummm we're not gonna talk about needing new tires, brakes, oil change, service.etc. I think we're goin real soon to upgrade my car, it's me dragging my arse not him. Maybe next weekend....definitely before the winter. LOL!!
 
mallysmommy said:
Cuffing season in full effect. Another ex hit me up. The one ive spoke many times about here.
Click to expand...

Well, that'll sure help you forget about that other guy

Also, im lightweight mad no one has tried to cuff me yet! :angry:
 
MrsS said:
He usually doesn't forget, especially not after we talked about it the day before. His argument was that we hung out on Sunday and that was our "celebration". Doesn't excuse the fact that he didn't say anything and came home late on our anniversary. We escalated into an argument... I'm tired of taking control. :nono:
I'm over it but not in a good way. I'm slowly getting to the point of no reaction=I won't care eventually. :nono:

Sent from my iPad using LHCF...if only it would stop correcting what I write.
Click to expand...

MrsS I'm really sorry he disappointed you and I understand not feeling like taking control. My dh isn't the most romantic but he has never overlooked a birthday, anniversary, or major holiday. We always make plans so I know I would have been very frustrated like you. Dh knows hanging out on Sunday would not cut it:nono: unless I said, "Honey, hanging out on Sunday was enough." I hope things work out, I can hear in your post that you still love him. I can't tell from what you've written if he's being mean or dumb. And coming home late? I don't get it. I wish you the best.
 
Bless their heart they really thought they were impressing me telling that they are the assistant manager at McDonalds. I think they are a little simple, but so sweet.
 
I'm such a dork. The trap of answering the phone and he says "hey, sexy" is that it almost makes me lose my cool and I sound the complete opposite of sexy. I wanna say yaaaaaaaaaaaay. lol. This is the guy I had a crush on. I'm still pretty excited about it :look: :Blush2:
 
Me: She has been dating him for five years and she still hasn't gotten a ring
Him: If it's been five years he isn't going to marry her
Me: :0(


I wonder if that's really true
 
This area of life was dead for a minute but maybe now it's picking up again. :)

I went to a singles event last night and met 2 guys. I approached both of them. I think what worked was that I was feeling really confident and just was in a fun mood. I was being cute and cracking jokes and being playful.

The first guy is a finance guy who's pretty cute. A few years older and just kinda fun. He's probably proper dating material.

The second guy is a pro athlete, younger than me, but hot hot hot and just sorta easy to talk to. I don't follow the sport he plays so I don't really know much about that. I actually busted on him a lot! Maybe he liked that. He proly has a sick body though. He's real pretty. Maybe fun material? Lol...

So glad to be back in the game!
 
Very pissed right now. Everything has been hospitable right now, but my husband moves out on the first and I still do not know where he is moving to, yet he wants to come over everyday to see our son. Well, dammit that is not fair to me! You want to be all in my space yet you do not want to even tell me where you live. My son will never stay at your house? You just expect to come over here and play house, with everything in place as it was except no obligations towards me? What if there is an emergency that requires me to drop him off? Meet at Walmart. Bet he moving to Encino Point...
 
for the longest time ive been trying to figure out who my bf reminds me of when he lets his hair grow. today it finally came to me. Ahmadinejad!:rofl: that's totally gonna be him in 30 years.
 
I had a slight mental breakdown last night, fueled by too much Adele and far too much alcohol. He literally held me all night long. Anytime I would try to move he'd pull me back into his body and stroke my hair or rub my back. I woke up still wrapped up in his arms and him rubbing my shoulders.

He's also banned Adele from the house :lol:

On a not so sweet note. I told him to do his taxes all year! Now he has to stay up all night getting his paperwork together for his accountant. Grrrr, LISTEN TO ME!
 
I want to ask who he's texting at this time if night? Would you or us that coming off too paranoid? Like seriously....who???!!!
 
Hi guys! It's nice to see all the blossoming relationships!

I'm currently trying to be more open minded, let's hope it lasts.



I'll keep praying for us.

Xo
 
Fine 4s why you gotta be so nosey? LOL j/k. Some folks have strange bed hours/body clocks so he could be talking to a fellow insomnic or someone in another time zone. If its bothering you ask if it happens again.

I want to ask The Mister to drive the 200 miles roundtrip to pick up & drop off the grand baby but his plumbing business is super duper busy. I cannot expect him to do it every other weekend since its not his obligation but damn it I like having a personal driver. I guess I'll settle on the tank of gas.

Damn that George Bush and his freaking oil buddies ripping us off royally! As long as I don't have to pay or pump the gas I guess I should be happy. I am going to think of something we can do romantic or fun on that side of town so that way it will be couples quality time instead of my obligation. Off to surf the net for good stuff. Everything is honky dory.
 
Hung out with an old flame who propositioned me. It made me realize 3 things:

I'm getting a little lonely/bored
I'm strong enough to stick to my standards
I've changed alot for the better :yep:

Tempting, but I'll have to pass :(
 
Fine 4s said:
I want to ask who he's texting at this time if night? Would you or us that coming off too paranoid? Like seriously....who???!!!
Click to expand...

I would ask him straight out. Dh emails all hours, responding to work-related e-mails (people in different timezones, etc.). But no texting as far as I know. I see texting as more of a personal thing vs. work so I would ask. I don't think it sounds paranoid, just a little nosey.
 
Haymarket said:
Very pissed right now. Everything has been hospitable right now, but my husband moves out on the first and I still do not know where he is moving to, yet he wants to come over everyday to see our son. Well, dammit that is not fair to me! You want to be all in my space yet you do not want to even tell me where you live. My son will never stay at your house? You just expect to come over here and play house, with everything in place as it was except no obligations towards me? What if there is an emergency that requires me to drop him off? Meet at Walmart. Bet he moving to Encino Point...
Click to expand...

He wouldn't be coming over to my house every day :nono:. That may be nice for him and your son but that is going to get on your nerves pretty quickly. I'm sorry you are going through this.
 
Observation made by him yesterday, "here lately everyone refers to you as my wife" no he didn't correct them either :look:

My mom asked me not to long ago what I would say if he asked to marry me....I don't know.
 
I really enjoyed our bonding time together last night. Going grocery shopping, cooking dinner, watching TV, a little coloring :look:. It was very nice. :yep:
 
His aunt passed and he has a fundraiser tonight for one of his good friends that he wants to go to. I've been in rehearsal every week night and haven't seen him since before I broke into his apartment. He asked if I could go to the fundraiser and then remembered I had rehearsal and said that was okay, he didn't want me to miss it for that. I'm glad to be doing this play (getting back into acting is a goal of mine. I don't like to push papers :sad:) and I'm glad he supports me but I'm sad. I feel like I'm not there for him at all. There's a wedding during the run of the play that he told me about months ago. He said it was okay--do the play. I was disappointed I couldn't go to the wedding (because...I wanted to experience that with him and meet all his friends :look:) but it didn't seem so bad to miss it. Now I'm just missing all the moments! Lawd.


On another note, cuffing season is in full effect. My BFF sent me a text saying that somebody she grew up with had a dream he would marry her and he just thought she should know. This dude just (1 or 2 years ago, at the most) had a baby with somebody we went to high school with. I said heeeeelllllllll naaaaaaaahhhhhh.
 
hopeful said:
I would ask him straight out. Dh emails all hours, responding to work-related e-mails (people in different timezones, etc.). But no texting as far as I know. I see texting as more of a personal thing vs. work so I would ask. I don't think it sounds paranoid, just a little nosey.
Click to expand...


I agree with this. I think it's just a little nosey. And nosey can be endearing :look: I'd ask. "who ya textin? :look:"
 
firecracker said:
@Fine 4s why you gotta be so nosey? LOL j/k. Some folks have strange bed hours/body clocks so he could be talking to a fellow insomnic or someone in another time zone. If its bothering you ask if it happens again.
Click to expand...

firecracker...leave me alone! lol

hopeful said:
I would ask him straight out. Dh emails all hours, responding to work-related e-mails (people in different timezones, etc.). But no texting as far as I know. I see texting as more of a personal thing vs. work so I would ask. I don't think it sounds paranoid, just a little nosey.
Click to expand...

I asked-He gets notification for details or OT on his phone. *rolls eyes*
But I wanna ask EVERYTIME! Like "who's that?" LOL

InchHighPrivateEye said:
I agree with this. I think it's just a little nosey. And nosey can be endearing :look: I'd ask. "who ya textin? :look:"
Click to expand...

Me too....
 
I hate this whole cuffing season stuff but there's definitely some truth to it. In the last month or so I've had more male attention than this whole entire year. Seems like as soon as I weed one out there's another waiting in the wings.

I like this new dude.
 
He makes me feel beautiful.

I realize that despite his stubborn ways, he is not going anywhere. He truly does love me as I am. I also realize that I judge him based on what I am used to and that was wrong of me. He has proven so many things to me already.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

M
relationship help
Replies
7
Views
1K
MsSharee06
M
Rainbow Dash
Folks, we are experiencing tribulation
Replies
23
Views
4K
Shimmie
Shimmie
Shimmie
Black Folks in Heaven ...
Replies
11
Views
4K
Guitarhero
Guitarhero
delitefulmane
Maintaining a Long Distance relationship....
Replies
3
Views
2K
delitefulmane
delitefulmane
N
God bringing folks into our lives according to His plan
Replies
6
Views
3K
BLESSED1
BLESSED1
Back
Top